4 Zodiacs Beginning A New Life Chapter Of Surrender In April

VIRGO

“Letting go” is a joke you tell sarcastically at parties, never your reality, Virgo, but sometimes surrender is an act of vulnerability. It’s making a list, which we know you love, of all the things in life that are simply out of our control, which we also know, you hate. But relinquishing responsibility for other people’s disappointment and bad behavior, the weather, or simply the score of the soccer game is good for you. It allows you the space to breath, the space to focus on everything that is within your power to choose or not choose, all of the many wonderful ways in which you do control your own destiny. You have to know where to start and where to stop. Think of this month as the opportunity to map out all of those nooks and crannies and set your own boundaries.

ARIES

Surrender doesn’t mean losing, Aries, it just means accepting that you can’t win. And sometimes, in life’s most complicated situations, no one does. We have to weather these storms and simply come out the other side intact. We protect ourselves, we wait out the worst of it, not because we’re giving up, but because we need the sun to poke out from the clouds before we can go get started on the work of rebuilding. Rain might seep into the cracks, wind may rattle the shutters, but there’s nothing you can’t DIY back to it’s original state afterwards. You are resilient, so take this pause as a chance to regroup and recharge. You’ll come out fighting again in no time.

CANCER

Sometimes, Cancer, we do everything we can and it’s still not enough to control the outcome. All that’s left, in those scenarios is to call it and walk away. There’s someone or something in your life you’ve been trying to revive for a long time now, but continuing this well-intentioned CPR can’t go on forever. Surrender to your own reality, and start to figure out what happens next. Acceptance is the only way we can really move forward in life. You should still be proud of all the choices you made, there’s nothing you should have done differently, but facing those harsh realities is one of the toughest things life requires of us. Give yourself a second to catch your breath, and then pick yourself up.

LIBRA

The craziest thing about this struggle you’ve been tied up in, Libra, is that it’s been with yourself. You keep second guessing every decision you make, playing devil’s advocate in some twisted attempt to find certainty while digging deeper hole in your of self-confidence. Just go with what your heart tells you. Take the plunge, don’t look back, and see what happens. We can’t proceed down both paths of a forked road at the same time. You have to make the choice, so you might as well commit, and do it with enthusiasm. There’s no use pulling teeth over the things that will end up great no matter what you choose, and you have to trust that the choices that do matter are things you are already built to handle.