You’re always an almost because you hide behind walls. You don’t want to come across as vulnerable, so you pretend that you care about your crushes less than you actually do. And this creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you assume they are going to hurt you and push them away, then they’re going to stay away. They’re going to end up hurting you because you gave them no other choice. You need to start being more honest with your crushes (and yourself) about how you feel. You need to stop pretending that you’re heartless. Make it clear that you do have feelings. Speak them out loud. Don’t be afraid because you are one of the most fearless signs in the zodiac.
You’re always an almost because no one has any idea how you feel about them. They never know that you’re interested because you never let them know what has been running through your mind. You simply hope that they’ll guess, that they’ll be able to interpret the subtle signals that you’ve been giving them – the type of signals that you would completely overlook if the roles were reversed because they aren’t nearly big enough. If you want to take your almost relationships to the next level, you can’t keep quiet. When you have feelings for someone, you lock your feelings inside instead of telling them the truth about how you really feel. You need to stop being so scared to voice your opinion. Yes, you could end up with your heart broken, but at least you’ll know where you stand with this person. At least you’ll be able to say that you gave love a real shot.
You’re always an almost because you take what you can get. You don’t want to be greedy, so you never ask for more. You never put your foot down and say that what you’re receiving isn’t good enough. You’re terrified of chasing this person away, so you settle for the bare minimum. But if asking for what you want makes them run in the other direction, guess what? They were never good for you in the first place. You need to find someone who is on the same page as you. Someone who is willing to put in the same amount of effort as you. Remember, you shouldn’t be doing all the work while they reap all the rewards. You should be benefiting from this relationship, too.
You’re always an almost because you are stuck in your ways. You never want to take the next step with someone and risk ruining your friendship or risk making things awkward at school or work. Even though you might not be happy with the way things are right now, you’re even more scared of change. You’re scared that you’re going to regret speaking from the heart, so you say nothing. You do nothing. You are a passive player in your own love life. And if you keep treating your crushes like friends, they’re going to assume that that’s all you ever want to be. You need to be brave enough to announce that you want something else, something new.