5 Signs He Isn’t Interested In A Relationship (He Just Likes The Attention)

Updated 4 years ago, November 18 2022
Relationships

Here are five signs he isn’t interested in a relationship (he just likes the attention).

1. You text more than you actually see each other in person.

Most of your interactions with him happen over text. You rarely see him in person despite attempting to make plans. He’s essentially never available. That said, your text conversations are vibrant, so long as the attention is focused on him. He loves telling you about his day, his job, his friends, his problems, and his dreams. But if the conversation ever drifts away from him, the conversation ends up dying. On that note…

2. He rarely asks you questions about yourself.

He doesn’t make much of an effort to get to know what’s going on with you and your life. Even if you attempt to share any good news with him, it’s always met with a lackluster, dead-end response. This behavior shows he is only talking to you because he likes the attention you give him. Because without that attention, he becomes totally disinterested. And why? Because he isn’t getting what he wants.

3. He is all about convenience.

In other words, everything is on his terms only. He will never go out of his way to be there for you, to see you, to listen to you. If it’s a “bad” time for him, that’s all that matters.

4. If he does come around, it is when he needs something from you.

Whether it’s emotional support, career advice, or a pep talk, he will come to you when he needs something and drop you the second he gets whatever it was. You always end up feeling used after your interactions.

5. He doesn’t commit to plans until the very last minute.

If you do end up getting him to commit to plans with you, you won’t know the plans are actually happening until the very last minute. And don’t be fooled into thinking it’s because he’s just so ✨ busy ✨ and needs to find room in his jam-packed schedule. It’s because he was waiting to see if something better came along. Please know you deserve better than being treated like an option and used. Let him go.