Polina Tankilevitch

66 Little Pieces Of Advice To Help You Live A Happier, More Meaningful Life

1. Make your bed.

2. Clean as you go.

3. Hold the door.

4. Give compliments. It doesnโ€™t hurt the tongue.

5. Wash the dishes.

6. Say thank you, please, sorry, and always mean it.

7. Visit your parents as often as you can. While you grow old, theyโ€™re growing old, too.

8. Read at least one book every month.

9. Take picturesโ€”a lot.

10. Kiss your spouseโ€”even when theyโ€™re asleep.

11. Prayโ€”whether with words, with tears, or in silence.

12. A massage is always a good idea.

13. Cleaning is not a one-time thing. Clean your house, workstation, and space as often as you can.

14. Date your spouse. Be consistent and intentional.

15. Have a go-to person, place, and song. Pick which is best according to your season.

16. Keep a journal. Write down your thoughts, goals, prayers, and heartbreaks.

17. Save a portion of your salary religiously.

18. Pay your debt and bills on time.

19. You donโ€™t need expensive clothes, but you certainly need clean ones.

20. Try your best to look put-together regardless of your job.

21. Clean the bathroom as much as you do with other parts of the house.

22. Write letters and notes. Reread the ones you received once in a while.

23. Visit your Alma Mater.

24. Keep your word. Back it up with actions.

25. Help someone without telling anyone.

26. Listen. Just listen.

27. Speak when you need to. Keep your mouth shut when you have to.

28. Donโ€™t joke about personal matters concerning someoneโ€™s job, loss, childlessness, and weight issues. Seriously, it hurts more than you know.

29. Love your in-laws as much as you love your parents and siblings.

30. Be concerned but not intrusive.

31. โ€œNoโ€ is a complete sentence.

32. Silence doesnโ€™t always mean โ€œYes.โ€ Sometimes, it could also mean, โ€œYouโ€™re not worth my time.โ€

33. You donโ€™t have to state whatโ€™s obvious.

34. Avoid joking about someoneโ€™s imperfectionsโ€”they already know about it.

35. Return whatever you borrowed in the same condition you received it.ย 

36. Be honest, not mean.

37. How you say something is more important than what you say.

38. Donโ€™t just teach with words; show it by actions.

39. ย Be mindful of your thoughtsโ€”what you dwell on transcends to your mood, actions, and overall being.

40. All kinds of wounds, regardless of how deep, will leave scars but eventually heals.

41. You donโ€™t have to chase whatโ€™s yours.

42. If it doesnโ€™t give you peace, itโ€™s not from God.

43. You canโ€™t always choose your battles, but you can always pick ones that need your presence.

44. Treat yourself once in a while.

45. Find a hobby.

46. Youโ€™re not superior to anyone. Weโ€™re all going to die.

47. Keep your cool at work.

48. Forgive even without receiving โ€œsorry.โ€

49. A closure isnโ€™t always a sit-down, heart-to-heart conversation; sometimes, itโ€™s an โ€œIโ€™m doing it for myselfโ€ mindset.

50. Family doesnโ€™t always have to be blood-related.

51. Choose your circle. Know your core.

52. Pride kills relationships.

53. Doing nothing is also a productive thing.

54. A good sleep always leads to a good day.

55. Donโ€™t burn bridges but learn to cut ties.

56. Leave something or someone better than you found them.

57. Be better than how someone found you.

58. When in doubt, wear white.

59. When not in the mood to put on makeup, wear big earrings.

60. Laugh as often as you can.

61. Always bring a sanitary napkin. Have a spare for someone who might need it.

62. Spend some alone time.

63. Be nice to the guard, janitor, and supermarket staff.

64. Visit new places.

65. Be still. Trust the process.

66. Know when to stop.