If He Wanted To Be With You, He Would

You do not have to wait for the right timing. You do not have to try to force him to change. He will not have a list of excuses. If he wanted to be with you, he would.

The man you’re supposed to be with will cross oceans for you. He’s not going to be afraid of commitment. He will not be too busy for you. He will make the time. 

The man you’re supposed to be with will know without a doubt that you’re the one. He’ll recognize you as his partner the moment he sees you. You’ll stop him in his tracks. He’ll know he wants you in his life even before you do. If he must, he will wait until you are ready to be with you. He will not give up easily. 

You won’t have to guess. He’ll make his intentions clear. He’ll find a solution to any problems that arise. He doesn’t need years of tests and challenges to know you’re the one. He will not give you a list of excuses. The man who wants to be with you would be.

If he’s still holding back, he is scared or unsure. And even the shyest men will work up the courage to ask you to be their partner. You will not need to call up your girlfriends to analyze what every sentence he says means. You won’t have to hint that you want a relationship. He will give it to you. He’ll want to see you and spend time with you. He’ll light up when he sees your face. If he wanted to be with you, he would.

The answers are more straightforward than they seem. You will know when a man loves you. You will know that he wants you in his future because he will tell you. He will not let you get away. He will not leave you guessing. So if anyone gives you excuses, drags you along, does all the relationships things, like spending time with you, sleeping with you, calling you, and allowing you to be their emotional sounding board without offering commitment, he’s not ready, and most likely he’s not the one.

He is not the one right now. You’re not the one right now to move him into action. I know it hurts when you want nothing more than your relationship to work, but the person you’re meant to be with will not leave you wondering. They will not, for a second, want to lose you. If he wanted to be with you, he would. Go where you are wanted. Go where you are sacredly loved.