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Here’s Why People Find You So ‘Hard To Get,’ Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Aries

(March 21st to April 19th)

Because it takes more than an enjoyable night of dinner or drinks to reel you in. With your love of adventure and your energetic spirit, you need way more than a standard date of โ€˜going through the motionsโ€™ before youโ€™re going to fall for someone.

Taurus

(April 20th to May 21st)

Because youโ€™re warm and loving to everyone you meet, so in order for them to break through that and to experience a relationship with you on a more emotionally intimate level than youย experience with others, it will take a lot of effort.

Gemini

(May 22nd to June 21st)

Because your lively and bright nature can make anyoneย feel like the most important person in the room, but when it comes to getting to know you on a deeper level โ€“ the version of youย thatโ€™s not always bubbly and happy and surrounded by friends โ€“ it takes a very particular person. Very few people have seen this vulnerable side of you.

Cancer

(June 22nd to July 22nd)

Because your intuition is strong and you can filter through bullshit in under a second, so no one is going to make it work with you if theyโ€™re playing games or pretending to be someone theyโ€™re not.

Leo

(July 23rd to August 22nd)

Because you have a certain way you expect to be treated, and if someone falls below that standard, youโ€™re not afraid to walk away and be on your own for a while.

Virgo

(August 23rd to September 22nd)

Because youโ€™re not easily impressed, and if someone thinks they can somehow sweep you off your feet with minimal effort or mediocre commitment, theyโ€™re dreaming.

Libra

(September 23rd to October 22nd)

Because you have no shortage of options when it comes to romantic suitors, and you have such intense connections with so many people that youโ€™re not going to settle down for just anyone.

Scorpio

(October 23rd to November 22nd)

Because you know what you want, and youโ€™re not afraid to walk away from something or someone if youโ€™re not happy.

Sagittarius

(November 23rd to December 21st)

Because youโ€™re straightforward andย will call it like you see it โ€“ and such intense honesty makes people feel both exhilarated and intimidated.

Capricorn

(December 22nd to January 20th)

Because no matter how much you like someone, your logic and practicality areย strong enough that if they donโ€™t treat you well or they donโ€™t meet you halfway, youย are tough enough to make yourself walk away.

Aquarius

(January 21st to February 18th)

Because youโ€™re very careful and cautious with your emotions, and it takes an incredibly special person for you to be willing to open up and let go of your typical sense of detachment and aloofness when it comes to relationships.

Pisces

(February 19th to March 20th)

Because youโ€™ve been overly trusting in previous relationships and you sometimes let your past experience interfere too much with your present decisions, so if youโ€™ve been hurt before, itโ€™s a lot harder for you to relax and open up. [tc-mark]