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25 Questions To Ask On A First Date If You Want To Find Out Who They Really Are

  1. Do you believe everything happens for a reason? Why?
  2. Do you consider yourself to be a religious person, a spiritual person, or neither? Why?
  3. What are you looking for relationship-wise?
  4. Describe yourself in five words.
  5. How would your best friend describe you in five words?
  6. How would you describe your ex in five words?
  7. How would your ex describe you in five words?
  8. Are you doing what you want to be doing with your life?
  9. Do you prefer texting or calling? Why?
  10. What were your top five artists on Spotify this year?
  11. Are you involved in politics? Why or why not?
  12. What are your thoughts on astrology?
  13. If you were stranded on an island and only had five albums you could listen to, which would you choose and why?
  14. What was the last book you read?
  15. Would you recommend that book?
  16. Do you have a role model of a gender you don’t personally identify with?
  17. You have the chance to give everyone in the world a single piece of advice. What would you say?
  18. You have the chance to give a younger version of yourself a piece of advice. How old would that version of yourself be?
  19. And what would you tell that younger version of yourself?
  20. What do you think about therapy?
  21. Are you an animal person?
  22. Are you an early riser or a night owl?
  23. Are you a saver or a spender? Why do you think that is?
  24. True or false? You are what Instagram tries to sell you.
  25. Do you think your past defines you? Why or why not?