“I Won’t Kiss You Unless…” Based On Their Birth Order

Only Child

They aren’t going to kiss you unless they know where you stand. Unless you have made your feelings about them clear. This doesn’t mean they’re completely opposed to hookups. It simply means they want to know what they’re getting themselves into. They want to make sure that you’re on the same page. Whether you’re interested in one night with them or a lifetime, they need this information upfront. If they’re still guessing how you feel, they won’t feel comfortable kissing you. With them, communication is essential.

Oldest Child

They aren’t going to kiss you unless you’re compatible in more than the physical sense. You don’t have to be soulmates — but they aren’t going to waste their time with someone who makes them groan whenever their mouth opens. They need to be able to enjoy a conversation with you. They need to like you as a person. Otherwise, they aren’t going to give you the time of day. Their standards are too high to settle for someone who only checks one box. They need someone who is fun to kiss and fun to wake up next to the next morning and chat with over coffee.

Middle Child

They aren’t going to kiss you unless you’re super into them. They want passion. They want excitement. They want to know that they aren’t your last option. They need to feel like they’re the only one that you want, that you can’t get enough of them. If you appear indifferent about them, then they aren’t going to want you around. They know their worth. They know they bring a ton to the table, even though they have their fair share of insecurities. If you want to kiss them, then you need to show you really care. You need to make your interest obvious.

Youngest Child

They aren’t going to kiss you unless you make the first move. Unless you show them that you want them and are willing to risk rejection to get a chance with them. It’s not that they’re scared to make the first move. It’s that they want to see you putting in some effort. They want to feel pursued. They want to feel special. If you want to kiss them, then you need to make it clear that you appreciate them and are impressed by them. A few compliments will go a long way. 

Twin

They aren’t going to kiss you unless you are authentically you. They can sense fakeness from a mile away, and they don’t want to waste their time with anyone who lies to their face in order to impress them. They don’t want you to play pretend and mindlessly agree with everything they say. They want your real opinion. They want someone who isn’t afraid to be themselves, someone who is going to embrace their goofiness and not care what anyone else thinks. If you want to kiss them, you have to introduce them to the real you. You have to say what you mean, not what you think they want to hear.