4 Birth Months Who Would Never Badmouth Their Ex

Sometimes, you need to vent about your exes in order to help yourself move on from the breakup. But this isn’t the way everyone heals. Some people would never utter a bad word about anyone they’ve dated. Here are the birth months who would never badmouth their ex, no matter how badly the breakup went:

October

People born in October are some of the most forgiving souls out there. Even if they go through a brutal breakup, they’re going to try their best to see the situation from their ex’s eyes. They are going to do everything they can to understand where the other person is coming from and give them plenty of grace. People born during this month don’t feel the need to act bitter or resentful because their ex provided them with plenty of good times. They are more thankful about meeting this person than upset about losing this person. They are able to look back on the relationship in a mature, healthy way.  

January

People born in January are all about respect. They aren’t going to speak badly about their ex, even if they are highly tempted to do so because they feel like it wouldn’t be right. They feel like it would reflect poorly on them and they don’t want to be the type of person to spread rumors or negativity. After all, they would never want their ex to do the same to them. People born during this month try their best to stay respectful during the relationship and after the relationship. While they aren’t going to lie about what caused the breakup, they are going to stick to the facts and avoid name-calling, avoid sinking to such a low level.

May

People born in May will still have love for their partners, even after they part ways. They aren’t going to suddenly start hating this person, even though they might hate what the person has done to them. People born during this month wouldn’t agree to date someone unless they were a wonderful person. Unless they had plenty of positive characteristics. So even though the relationship didn’t work out, they still have love in their heart for that person. They still wish them the best and hope that they do well without each other.

September

People born in September are good at separating their emotions. Although they might have horrible thoughts about their ex before they fall asleep each night, they would never voice those thoughts out loud in public. They don’t want to spread negativity and come across like the bitter ex. They would rather take the high road. They would rather act mature. If they absolutely need to rant about what their ex put them through, then they will speak to a therapist or a friend that they trust not to share their secrets. But they would never put this person on blast online or in a group setting. They would never intentionally try to turn others against them. It just isn’t in their nature.