I hope you don’t listen to society dictating your standards when it comes to having a relationship. Standards that are over the top and don’t seem very realistic. Social media can create an idea in our heads of a seemingly perfect life and relationships that we tend to seek out in our real-life relationships. They can make you very unappreciative of your partner just because they don’t seem like the ones you see on your Instagram feed. But that doesn’t mean they aren’t good for you. That doesn’t mean they aren’t able to make you feel loved and supported. Remember, those photos are just highlight reels. Life behind the camera is what you need to focus on.
I hope you choose to be with someone who loves you unconditionally. Someone who takes care of you, who inspires you to be better. Someone who has good intentions for you. Someone who doesn’t have it all but is willing to give you everything they have. Someone who just wants to make you happy.
I hope you choose to be with someone who has their feet on the ground. Someone who experienced failures in life but still managed to find their way back up again. Someone who is humble enough to admit they’re not perfect but are changing for the better every single day. Someone who might not give you a picture-perfect life but will give you so much happiness beyond the realm of social media.
I hope you choose to be with someone who might not be booksmart but has a lot of wisdom when it comes to life itself. Someone who’s accumulated tons of lessons from their ups and downs. Someone who is not scared of who they really are but will be very open with you about their past, flaws, and everything in between. Because loving you requires them being completely honest to you, and you to them. It’s a matter of trust and acceptance from both parties.
I hope you choose to be with someone who might not be the most successful human being, but who has the diligence to succeed in life and has a spirit that just doesn’t give up. Life isn’t all about riches and success, money and fame. Choose someone who will climb up the mountains with you until you both reach the top. Someone who is hard working and is striving to provide a good life for your family. Someone who pushes you to reach your goals while they reach theirs. Someone who believes that what you want is within your reach if you put in enough effort and faith to get it.
I hope you choose to be with someone who will make you the happiest person on earth. Someone who will give you a healthy, genuine, and loving relationship. Because status doesn’t necessarily make a good partner, but a good soul will.