Rafael Aguite

Someday You’ll Finally Realize That You Are Enough

I know in the past you have had to defend yourself and it has been a long road to get to this point. You are tired and I want you to know you will get to a space where you no longer have to. In the past, you have had to defend your choices, your privacy, and your emotions.

Even though the choices you made were aligned to what you needed, you felt you had to defend others when they questioned your decision. This made you unsure and doubtful of yourself.

Even though having your own space and privacy is healthy, you were made to feel that you didn’t deserve those things. This made you feel like you weren’t important.

Even though your emotions were okay because they were coming from your heart, you were made to feel that it was wrong to feel how you felt. This made you feel ashamed and wrong.

You will get to a space where you learn that what you choose is enough and that what you need and how you feel is acceptable. You will be able to confidently believe that you are enough.

You will get to a space where there are no explanations owed and there is no need for a defense strategy. You will be able to simplify and truly ground yourself with the basics that you need and deserve.

You will be able to recognize what you need and how to find it in yourself and in others. You will not need to prove any of these.

You will be so sure that these values are important that you will follow through with yourself and remain consistent in finding them. You will not give up on yourself because you are confident.

You are resilient. You are brave. You are loved beyond measure.