Jakob Wandel

The 1 Thing You Absolutely Need In A Relationship, Based On Your Birth Order

Here is the one thing you absolutely need in a relationship, based on your birth order.

Only Child

If you’re an only child, you need space in a relationship above all else. You have a strong sense of self and are used to doing things your way, and on your own. You need plenty of alone time to pursue your passions and interests outside of your relationship in order to be happy (and to avoid feeling smothered).

Oldest Child

If you’re an oldest child, you need ambition in a relationship above all else. Given the fact you’re a natural-born leader and go-getter, you need a partner who is able to match your drive for success. You need a relationship that encourages your growth, and doesn’t hold you back from becoming everything you want to be.

Middle Child

If you’re a middle child, you need stability in a relationship above all else. You’re adaptable and easygoing, always striving for balance and fairness. In a partnership, you need to know you can depend and trust your person. Otherwise, you will not feel safe and be able to thrive in love.

Youngest Child

If you’re the youngest child, you need spontaneity in a relationship above all else. Because you’re adventurous and love new experiences, you need a partner who is willing to join you for the ride. This is a form of quality time for you and a way you can become closer with your person.

Twins/Multiples

If you’re a twin or part of a set of multiples, you need deep connection in a relationship above all else. You want to know your partner completely. You want to be able talk about everything and anything with your significant other, bonding over the big and little things in life.