5 Green Flags You’re In A Relationship With Your Goddamn Soulmate

You have fun doing absolutely nothing together.

Comfortable silence is a love language you both know well. You don’t have to make extravagant Friday night plans in order to enjoy one another. Nope, for you two, sharing each other’s company, even in the simplest of ways, makes you feel connected.

You feel like you knew them in a past life.

You can’t shake this feeling that you’ve met them in another life because of how instantly the two of you clicked upon meeting. It almost felt like reuniting with an old flame you lost touch with. You two match each other’s energy with the familiarity of people who have been married for years. You have an undeniable chemistry that would take most people years to build, but for you both, it was instantaneous.

They fit into your life almost seamlessly.

Everything is so easy when it comes to them. It’s like they were made for your life, and you theirs. Your friends and family adore them, and they adore your friends and family. You love their friends and family, and they love you. Compromise is simple. You both have compatible life visions. In other words, you two just work.

You feel calm around them.

They’re your safe place. You aren’t afraid to be vulnerable with them because you know they will hold your vulnerability with the utmost care and tenderness. They are consistent and you never have to guess what version of them you’re going to get on a given day. And you aren’t bored by the calm. Rather, you welcome it because you finally feel at home.

You can’t imagine loving anyone else.

And because of this, you are committed to loving them long-term, even through the ups and downs. You understand that you won’t ever have a perfect relationship. But you don’t want that anyway; you just want them and are willing to do whatever it takes to make sure you stay together. After all, they’re your soulmate. And you’re theirs.