Vince Perraud

The Worst Heartbreak Of Your Life Will Be With A Bare Minimum Man

The worst heartbreak of your life will be with a bare minimum man not because he did anything bad, but because he really didn’t do anything good, either. He was kind. Gentle. Good. He showed you a sweetness you never tasted before.

Still, something was missing — you just didn’t know what. But that’s just it, isn’t it? The fact that you felt something was missing says so much.

Maybe there was never really excitement or grand romantic gestures. He was simply there and you fell for it. You accepted whatever little love he gave you. You settled for it.

Or maybe that passion was there but it got lost along the way. And now, he doesn’t try anymore. He doesn’t try to sweep you off your feet. He’s got you, so why bother trying to keep you?

The worst heartbreak of your life will be with a bare minimum man simply because of the almosts. He almost tried more. He almost put in more effort. You almost felt like he was the one for you. It’s always an almost, a not quite.

You deserve more than an almost, a not quite, a maybe. You deserve the passion and excitement you’ve been craving. You deserve more than whatever you’ve settled for in the past. You deserve more than someone who is only willing to give you the bare minimum.