Why You Always Miss Flirty Signals, Based On Your Birth Month

January

You miss signals because you’ve read them wrong before. You’re scared of making the same mistakes again and getting your hopes up over nothing. You don’t want to make assumptions about how this person feels and misread the entire situation. You want to have it confirmed by them first.

February

You miss signals because you’re always daydreaming. You get so lost in your own thoughts that you don’t examine your surroundings or body language as much as you should. Instead of acting present, you’re trapped in your own head.

March

You miss signals because you struggle with self-confidence issues. Even when someone is making it clear they’re crushing on you, you assume that cannot possibly be the case. You assume that it must be a trick or that you’re reading them wrong.

April

You miss signals because they’re way too small for you to pick up on. You prefer transparency to subtlety. If someone likes you, you wish they would come out and say it. It’s too stressful to analyze everything they say and do, hoping to guess what they’re thinking inside.

May

You miss signals because you’re too worried about what you’re doing, about whether you’re saying and doing the right things at the right time. You don’t have time to pay attention to the signals they’re giving because you’re too worried about the signals you’re giving.

June

You miss signals because you’ve gotten your heart broken before and are trying to close yourself off. You’re trying not to feel because you think it will protect you. You don’t let yourself acknowledge the signs because you’re too scared of what might happen if you do.

July

You miss signals because you’re a pessimist. You jump to the worst case scenarios so if someone is staring at you, you assume it’s because they’re making fun of you, not because they’re attracted to you. It’s hard for you to accept you’re a catch.

August

You miss signals because you’ve met your fair share of flirts. You know that signals could mean absolutely nothing. It depends on the person. You don’t want to assume someone is completely into you when they could be treating everyone this way.

September

You miss signals because your mind is always preoccupied with something else, whether it’s a problem you need to fix or a chore that needs completing. You’re always super stressed, which clouds your judgement. It makes it hard for you to think clearly, especially when you’re around someone attractive.

October

You miss signals because you’re super sweet to everyone you meet, so when someone treats you extra special, you assume they’re simply being nice too. You don’t realize that they’re flirting. You assume this is normal behavior from them.

November

You miss signals because you’re not great at sending them either. You aren’t exactly sure how you should flirt properly. You aren’t sure how to make your feelings clear without coming on too strong or scaring the person away. This whole flirting thing is a mystery to you.

December

You miss signals because you are much more focused on other areas of your life. Love and romance usually aren’t at the forefront of your mind, so you don’t even consider that someone could be crushing on you. Someone else usually has to point it out for you.