11 Men Looking For Love Reveal What Makes Them Swoon

“We live in a busy world. if she were to stop in the middle of what she was doing and come over to cuddle and tell me a joke or a compliment, my happiness meter would explode, and my day would be one to remember.” — i_would_have

“Everyone has their own love language, for me it’s physical touch. A handsy girl can make me melt and I don’t mean sexual touching, like hand holding, walking arm in arm, cuddling, running her fingers through my hair, touching my face, etc. things like that. Also receiving compliments on our appearance is something I think every man loves since, at least in my experience, we don’t get that many. Nothing crazy, but if you notice something you like about him, tell him, like ‘that shirt looks really good on you,’ or ‘I love what you did with your hair,’ just be prepared for whatever article of clothing you compliment to become his favorite piece or for whatever hairstyle you compliment to become his new default.” — vivivivivistan

“Hug for longer. Every time a guy gets hugged he pretends it didn’t affect him and then he goes to sleep all warm and fuzzy.” — Fake-And-Gay-Bot

“Being playful. My late wife LOVED doing playful things to aggravate me but in a silly playful way. Her favorite and the one I always fell for was she’d want a little kiss and the moment my lips touched hers she’d stick her tongue out so it went between my lips. It used to irritate the shit out of me but she was being playful. I really miss that stuff now. If I was to date again I’d want someone that does playful stuff like this.” — HumpieDouglas

“Plan dates without my input. I’m 40 and can count on one hand the number of times that has happened in my life.” — thingpaint

“Take initiative. Men spend their time chasing, it would be nice to be chased.” — CactusJuice_Enjoyer

“Make him feel desired. Stop acting like the only ‘prize’ in a relationship is you. Take him out on a date. Get involved in his hobbies especially when he’s willing to be involved and support you in yours.” — aCreativeUserName666

“Surprise me with random acts of kindness. Anything at all that indicated they thought of me or were active listening in a previous conversation. It could be as simple as picking up my childhood favorite cereal box for 4$.” — nomdeplume

“Small gestures. Pour me a whiskey after a long day. Run me a bath. Buy me some beer. Offer to drive.” — United-Hovercraft409

“I got given flowers for Valentine’s, and I cannot express the joy I felt receiving them” — Rigmarrr

“Men don’t get complimented, like at all, ever. You don’t have to fawn over someone, but if you tell a guy, ‘nice watch’ on a date you better damn believe that man is going to be wearing that watch at his funeral. I’ve had women compliment different parts of my body (non-sexually) and I’m pretty sure I remember every one of those compliments I’ve ever gotten.” — shortadamlewis