12 Singles On What Would Send Them Running During A Date

“Someone who posts that they are looking for a serious relationship but when you match with them they turn it super sexual real fast. I actually ended up calling a guy out on this and he told me he puts that he wants a relationship because he gets more matches even when he just wants a hookup. Gross.” — emismythical

“When guys sexualize my job. I’m a nanny/babysitter. I hate when guys talk about it sexually. Like ‘hmm I wish you were my babysitter.’” — lightteenagerbaby

“If they complain nonstop about how miserable they are, they’re not going to get better in a relationship. It will only get worse.” — xain_the_idiot

“Doesn’t matter if they directly say it, or because of their actions, but the ‘I can’t be alone’ people. Sometimes they will straight up tell you this, or it will become clear as they’ve been with many people with no or little time in between those relationships. Most of the time dating people who are like that, will end up realizing that this is not what they want, and that they ‘have to work on themselves’ (bonus points if they say it is because they thought they were over ‘x’ or ‘y’, but aren’t yet).” — nolongerredditless

“Sexual double entendres when you’ve literally just met and aren’t quite comfortable with each other yet.” — Dramiotic

“If you meet them whilst they are dating someone else, but their relationship is coming to an end. You two are getting on real well, all of a sudden… Oh they won’t leave you for someone else, oh no. They will. Yes, they will.” — gliitch0xFF

“Continual contrariness where the intended effect is ‘I am interesting and different – a free spirit’ but the actual effect is ‘this person is way too much like hard work.’ I mean you expect shit testing but when everything seems like a shit test, whatever happened to enjoying someone’s company?” — just_some_guy65

“When they trying to control everything. From drinks to food in a second or third date because they think I would like what they’ve chosen for me. Or when they still talk about that ex from years ago or trying to find me as their ‘replacement.’ No, I’m not her.” — Effective_Math_2717

“The mysterious type. The come and find out, the you’ll have to wait and see, the you’re not ready yet. It tells me this person is waaaay less interesting than they want to look like, and/or they are hiding something sordid” — ElektraBabeOF

“Bringing up zodiac signs and assuming my personality based on my birth date rather than actually trying to getting to know me. Real story. The guy spent half an hour straight checking up my ascendant sign after my zodiac sign to make assumptions about me right to my face. Boy, get a life first please.” — FBrandt

“How they discuss animals. How one talks about, discusses and treats animals is very indicative of someones levels of empathy.” — lankypiano

“Talking over me. Telling me what to think. Trying to explain my experiences and/or field to me.” — SimoneBeaudelaire