13 Divorced Men Reveal The Exact Moment They Decided To Leave Their Wife

Unfortunately, not all marriages are meant to last. Here are some stories from men about the moment they knew they weren’t going to stay married to their spouse:

“She made me watch Oprah and there was a quiz: Is Your Marriage Okay Or Not. In my head I saw 7 or 10 items that were Not Okay. She didn’t see any. “ — ShambValhalla

“I used to love to do chores for her because she loved being taken care of. When she stopped noticing, it started hurting. Then one day I made a bench for our entryway out of barn wood. Took about 40 hours of work. She walked in the house after work that day and sat her purse on it and proceeded to start the fight where she told me that she was mad she got married to me. She stormed out of the house grabbing her purse. Never noticed the bench was there. I knew then but I think she already knew.” — pcade11

“When my buddies approached me to complain that she kept sitting on their laps, wiggling, and hoping for an erection.” — drsugarballs

“Our daughter at 3 years old told us to stop yelling.” — NOTcreative-

“When we went on a family vacation and I hoped she’d sleep the entire time so I could have fun with our son.” — wiskrbiskt

“I was a Lance Corporal bringing home scraps for a paycheck to an unemployed wife who one day brought home a brand new Lexus IS350 because she ‘got a good deal on it.’ Apparently I was supposed to pay the $800/mo bill. I didn’t think it was a good deal.” — Mr-Ignorantiam

“She let me know she was pregnant and wanted my permission to tell all her girlfriends during a girls’ night out. Since I knew there was no possible way it was my child, she was also unknowingly admitting to having an affair. (I can math, and she can’t). It was with her boss. Lawyered up the next day, and he ate her alive in court. I got primary custody of our child we already had, and child support, and a sheriff’s notice that she had to vacate my home in 30 days. I never knew she could be that stupid.” — yourbrotherrex

“When I came to the realization that I was the asshole.” — Raptor_Jesus_IRL

“When a friend’s wife said to me, ‘You know your wife is sleeping with my husband.’” — stickittothemanuel

“The morning I saw a picture of some dude’s dick on her phone. She was classy enough to bring him to the divorce proceedings…” — TheMulletBurden

“When she staged a robbery of our house so she could pawn all of my shit for drug money.” — Carpe_cerevisiae

“When she cried to me over the $100 she needed to cover going to NYC so she could see friend she hadn’t seen in months. She went from not going because it wasn’t worth the money to walking gleefully out the door when I handed her the $100. As I was laying in bed I wondered why she had no money… I checked her favorite clothing store history. She was averaging spending 75% of her income on clothes and makeup. Everything fell into place for me that day.” — the420star

“When I came to the sad realization that we were just good roommates and had been like that for years. We have been divorced for almost 10 years and she is one of my favorite people in the world, we just weren’t supposed to be married.” — ballplayer0025