13 Emotional Turn-Offs For Men

Everyone has different tastes. What one person might consider a turn-off could be a plus to someone else. Here are some of the biggest emotional turn offs for men:

“For me it’s when a woman never initiates anything at all. Like, I’m willing to take the first step and all but you gotta work with me a bit too. I lose interest pretty quickly if it feels like I’m the only one putting in all the effort.” — Northernsight

“For me its when the woman is not into me. As in… she may be attracted to me for something I have but she isn’t really into me. Everything in that relationship is just worse and will not work out.” — max_disrrrespect

“Ultimatums. I cannot and will not stand for ultimatums. ‘It’s your friends or me.’ Bye! I’ve know them for 20+ years and you for 2 months.” — captainsaluki

“Not sure if it’s the biggest one, but when a person talks about others behind their back. I think we all do it when frustrated, but when someone makes it a part of their daily life, it becomes toxic and frankly undesirable.” — TakahashiCherry

“Being rude. Being nice and respectful to people like waiters is such a turn-on, so it’s not only unattractive when a woman is impolite to them, it’s a deal-breaker. Also, cigarettes are a major turn off, so are vapes by to a lesser extent.” — ZeninB

“A girl who is not and clearly will never be able to take care of herself. I don’t want someone being with me because she needs some fool to pay her bills.” — Kriskao

“Playing the oh i’ll wait a few hours to reply game over text. Sometimes people are busy, but waiting a day or two to reply is brutal. Just say hey I’m busy right now, I’ll text you tomorrow”.” — CanOfCokeZer0

“Head games and lack of communication. For a gender that claims to communicate better than males, females are absolutely atrocious at it. Nothing is a bigger turn off to me than an inability to articulate your needs and wants in a reasonable and clear manner.” — monogreenforthewin

“For me it is bossiness and selfishness. Just wanting her own way 100% of the time. Not much of a relationship really.” — Reasonable_Meal_9499

“No feedback or communication can hurt quite a bit. You can try to do everything right and still be wrong in some cases.” — ray458

“Stares at phone for duration of date while you try to have an engaging conversation.” — Mullet_Police

“Clinginess. And playing mind games. Say what you mean, mean what you say.” — robbadobba

“Using a bad state of mind or having a bad day as an excuse to lash out all around you. Most of the time it is sad circumstances for them but never should you (verbally) attack someone just because you feel like it.” — tobey1408

“Litter bugs. I dated a girl for about six months until I found out she would constantly litter. Her excuse was someone will pick it up. We didn’t last much longer after that.” — chzboi