15 Women Reveal The Type Of Men They Wish They Weren’t Attracted To

Unfortunately, you can’t control what the heart wants. But these women from Ask Reddit wish that their heart wanted something else. They wish they weren’t attracted to men like this:

“Guys with potential. I always get so excited to cheer them on towards their goals and encourage them, only to realize that they don’t want to actually put forth the effort needed to achieve anything.” — Snowmoe1225

“Super jacked guys because it means they obviously go to the gym a lot and probably want a girl that goes to the gym a lot and I hate the gym!” — goedemorgen_eh

“Really dominant guys. It can either be amazing, or they can be assholes. They also tend to be a bit emotionally distant, takes a while to get through the walls. It just usually leaves me the one that is more attached and it hurts so much worse when they get bored.” — sinkingintheseas

“Ambivalently distanced men. They provide enough compliments/hot sex and attention to keep me hoping, but enough distance for me to want to work extremely hard to try and please them and ‘make’ them love me.” — beautea

“Men I can’t have. As soon as I find out they are prohibited in some way, they instantly become more appealing. I have self control but fuck if it isn’t annoying.” — please_leave_blank

“Broken people. They remind me of myself and I want to help them, but it’s never that simple.” — SillyBronson

“Extroverted guys. I’m introverted and nervous as fuck talking to new people so I never interest them.” — Neonfairytale

“Super smart older men. It’s rough because medicine is full of them. Luckily I have a great fiancé who will grow old to be a super smart old man, but for now, it’s rough sometimes after talking to men that are just insanely smart and silver foxing.” — ThoseTruffulaTrees

“Guys that are cold and standoffish. I always think I can help them open up. Does not work.” — princess-captain

“People who don’t want me as their first choice. It’s kind of my thing at this point .” — pnandgillybean

“Guys that are waaaay out of my league. I have way too high of standards” — criuggn

“Super clingy men who text me throughout the day every day. Who want to be together as much as possible. Who do important and leisurely things together. All of that.” — mulierbona

“The traditional, straightlaced, conservative types. I’m atheist, bisexual, mostly liberal, shaved head, tattoos, all that but all my relationships are always with people who are just so SQUARE. I think I find the assumed stability of those types attractive. My current boyfriend has learned to chill out a bit in the three years we’ve been together, but he also thinks he needs to start wearing polos since he is almost 30. Also, Republican lesbians? You’d think they didn’t exist, but I’ve dated TWO.” — pittiesandkitties

“As a straight woman, 1000% into men, I always seem to get major crushes in men who… are into other men. Sigh.” — Merry_Pippins

“Kings and princes. Because there’s no way in any level of hell I am going to actually be able to marry a king or prince. And as for the ‘everyday’ equivalent of super-rich guys who have enough money and community influence to equate to ‘royalty,’ they are so incredibly out of my league it’s not even in the same park. But goddammit they’re the only type of dudes I’m attracted to.” — novaonthespectrum