16 Red Flags That Your Partner Is Not A Good Person (And Doesn’t Deserve You)

“They are nice to a few people and an asshole to the rest. I’ve noticed that a lot of people find it easy to ignore someone being rude, mean, or a general asshole to others just as long as that person is nice to them. Personally I think it’s a matter of time until they also are on the receiving end of the bad behavior.” — TheMysticalCreature1

“Passively aggressively insulting you in front of a group of people in such a way that you can’t say anything back without looking like you’re the emotional one even though you know that they intentionally insulted you to disrespect you.” — HackTheNight

“Regular putdowns that are disguised as ‘jokes.’ I’m talking about ‘jokes’ that they either carry on long after everyone else has stopped, or alternatively legit insults that they will only claim is a joke if you get upset.” — yeetgodmcnechass

“People who have never done anything wrong. If you’ve known a person for any amount of time and you’ve never heard them say, ‘I’m an asshole, I fucked up,’ they are probably a terrible person and will victimize you in ways you can’t imagine.” — AggravatingMath717

“On the flip side, if you meet someone who tells you upfront that they’re an asshole, believe them. And if someone say they’re ‘blunt’ or ‘I say what other people won’t’ or ‘other people don’t like me because I’m honest’… just run. Far and fast.” — LadyBug_0570

“They demand forgiveness instead of asking for it. I said I was sorry, it’s done now. Get over it.” — MaliciousPorpoise

“They have a habit of talking bad about other people behind their backs and spreading gossip and rumors. You can tell a lot about a person by observing how they talk about their peers behind their back. When a person occasionally vents by talking bad about someone (like their boss, or classmate) because of some unpleasant experience, that’s okay. We all do it. But when a person habitually talks shit about people behind their back, that’s a big red flag.” — HopelessDude96

“All their exes are crazy and nothing negative is never their fault.” — forestfairygremlin

“Someone who is incapable of reflecting. They are the centre of their own universe. They are unable to grasp the big picture or how they fit within it. Everyone has a place in the larger picture, which is their small view of the world.” — No_Maximumdse

“When they talk about themselves then stop listening when you talk about yourself.” — Chronicl-ill-Daniel

“When they see someone else’s progress or success as a threat.” — Aggravating_Gift_520

“They believe that respect is earned but demand it immediately from you.” — GrilledCheeser

“Littering. It’s not a violent act or anything, but it does indicate a lack of respect that usually carries into other aspects of the person’s life.” — BeskarVagina

“Borrowing money and forgetting to / claims he already paid it back. Borrowing tools / clothing and breaking or ruining them. By this time you should cut all ties.” — Irrelavent1

“When they say they’re a good person. You don’t need to tell someone you’re a person for them to know you are one.” — fluffyboi38

“Failing to return a grocery cart to the designated spot. Seems insignificant but it really speaks to a self centered state of mind, especially when they leave them blocking another parking spot. It’s the ‘it’s someone else’s problem’ mentality.” — dsw1219