16 Red Flags To Look Out For In His Apartment
“No cleaning supplies. No toilet cleaner, dish soap, dish rack, mop, broom, vacuum, dirty dishes in the sink (like a pile that hasn’t been done in a while), no trash bag in the trash can.” — poorcupid
“Holes in walls. Fuck no. I’m talking about holes he punched in anger (or for fun, which is crazy behavior)” — [deleted]
“If there’s plastic over the furniture, that can only mean one of three things: He has extreme OCD. He’s repainting. You’re about to have your organs harvested.” — TheF0CTOR
“Lots of pictures of his ex.” — Toodlepie
“Cameras. Once went on a date with a guy. Went back to his studio apartment and there was a ‘security’ camera on the wall that had the bed and whole living area in view. Didn’t know him very well, didn’t fully trust the camera was off. Red flag.” — Mooneater13
“Pee in water bottles. Walked in. Took a look and walked right the fuck back out.” — [deleted]
“One often overlooked thing is too different from yours. If it’s too dirty or too clean compared to how you keep yours, get ready to deal with the difference. A messy person will always leave a mess, and a clean one will nag you about yours. Then there’s in-depth hobbies. It’s not necessarily a bad thing if someone has anime figurines or sexy calendars, but the question always is, do you? If someone likes something enough to have it around and buy associated merchandise, it’s a major hobby. If you can’t enjoy it together, it will stand between you.” — SleepyBoy-
“Too many mirrors. Or erotic art.” — hobbes_shot_first
“I’ve gone on two separate first dates where I’ve gone back to his place, only to find an array of BDSM equipment laid out neatly on his bed in anticipation — once to be used on him, once to be used on me. (It wasn’t used on either of us, either time.) These were first dates. I’m down, but there has to be a conversation first, you know? You can’t just spring that on someone.” — Portarossa
“Probably all the KY Jelly bottles that my former guy friend had strewn around his apartment. One in the kitchen, one in the living room, one in the bathroom…. I lost count. That night he confessed he had feelings for me, but I didn’t feel the same way. Things got pretty awkward and I haven’t talked to him since.” — jojomecoco
“I once went home with a guy and there were dozens of condoms on the coffee table.” — strawberrydreamgirl
“No soap in the bathroom to wash your hands.” — Darknyan004
“Soap scum in the shower so thick you can run a nail through it to the tiling.” — daisy-chain-of-doom
“Well if there’s NOTHING in the house except a blow up mattress in the living room, I would nope the fuck out and I did.” — mobybowie
“Picture frames turned face down with another woman.” — [deleted]
“Dirty guest bathroom. If there’s piss stains on the toilet or there’s like 8 years of shit stains and filth ringing the bowl, Houston we’ve got a filthy person. Also if there’s paper towel instead of toilet paper.” — Neptunea