16 Women Discuss How Men Regularly Disappoint Them

Women have had enough. Here are some reasons why they regularly get pissed off by the men in their life, so if you’re a guy, try not to do the following things:

“Pretending to be invested in a relationship (romantically or as a friend) when really you just want to smash. Just be honest bruh.” — Future_Medx

“Get unreasonably pissed off about something I bought with my own damn money.” — MollyG418

“When you’re constantly doing things as expected and never get a thank you, but then they do one small thing and expect a ton of praise.” — chronically__anxious

“Wearing your underwear until it’s nothing but elastic.” — Sunieta25

“(Not all men do this, but alot that I’ve met do): Acting different towards your partner when you have friends over. It’s not cool.” — asiaticlilly

“Pretend to be so bad at something that I just give up and do it myself.” — whatisevenit

“Ask to spend time together then tune me out the whole time.” — LilithBaby21

“Not being honest because ‘I might get into trouble.’ I’m not your mother or your caregiver. I’m not going to ground you or spank you (even if you ask me to lol). But I need your honesty as an equal person, and it’s going to be a dealbreaker if you lie to me.” — butter00pecan

“Always eating before women at family dinners and relaxing while the women clean. I’m tired of serving, tidying up, and all that. I want to sit and enjoy a drink while talking after dinner like the men do.” — i-love-big-birds

“Not all men do this, but whenever I say I don’t want kids, they’ll try to convince me that I’ll want some one day or say I’ll die cold and alone. I’m 34. If I wanted kids, I would have had them already.” — Express_Topic_4081

“Touching my back or side when trying to get by me in a public space even though we are complete strangers. Typically happens with middle aged men, which makes me even more upset, honestly.” — sir_loin69

“Assume every gripe we have with another woman is due to jealousy. I knew one woman who stole a friend’s credit card and tried to steal mine and a man brushed it off as women being competitive. She stole around £250 after memorizing the pin.” — RunWithRope

“Guys can roll out of bed and be ready in 15 minutes or less. I don’t know why but I’m pissed that I can’t.” — macaronsforeveryone

“Allowing your partner to be a substitute for your mother. Then when your partner calls you out on not helping out around the house, replying with ‘if you tell me what to do then I’ll do it.’ NO. You are a grown ass adult, if you can’t see the dishes piling up then YOU need to sort your shit out.” — caution_cat

“As I get older it appears more and more men lack the skill of listening, not just to women, to ANYONE. I frequently watch males in my friend group have conversations and they’re all talking over each other the whole time without responding to anything else anyone is saying and then all get grumpy because no one’s listening. Shut up, take turns, listen to hear and understand, not to be thinking about your response the whole time they’re talking.” — AmorousAlice

“When you lose something, you look for less than 10 seconds and claim you can’t find it. It’s nowhere. It was stolen. Etc. Then it takes me 45 seconds to locate it.” — JudgmentalRavenclaw