19 Secrets All Women Should Know (But Are Rarely Taught)
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19 Secrets All Women Should Know (But Are Rarely Taught)

โ€œBleached underwear is a common and perfectly normal side effect caused by the pH of vaginal discharge!โ€ โ€” buh-nah-nuh

โ€œLactating women do not have just one stream of breast milk that comes out of the middle part of the areola.โ€ โ€” Egg_Cellent

โ€œYour tummy will look different throughout the day. Usually it gets larger and smaller post-meal and from varying gas amounts. Itโ€™s OK. Theyโ€™re made to protect organs, anyway, they donโ€™t have to be as flat as a door.โ€ โ€” introverted-void

โ€œThere is no shame in doing a pregnancy test. In fact, if something is weird with your hormones/body that you havenโ€™t experienced much before, itโ€™s always better to do a test just to be sure. Even if itโ€™s unlikely you are pregnant, if there is any likelihood at all just do the test and be sure. I heard of it so many times at this point that even fully grown women hesitate (sometimes for weeks!) to do a test and it can land you in hot water. Besides, it is agony to have that creeping doubt. Every contraceptive can fail and itโ€™s much better to know early and have all the options. On that same note: Cheap pregnancy tests work exactly the same and are just as effective as expensive pregnancy tests. I keep a multipack of cheap stick tests just to be sure.โ€ โ€” Oookulele

โ€œMiscarriage is normal.โ€ โ€” Past_Street_5943

โ€œYour vulva wonโ€™t smell like flowers and it doesnโ€™t mean itโ€™s not clean/healthy. And youโ€™re not supposed to wash the inside of it, your body cleans it itself.โ€ โ€” easypeasylemonive

โ€œLadies when you go for a smear test (or pap smear for my American gals) they guess the size of the instrument, the speculum, they need to use on you based on your height. It shouldnโ€™t be painful, you can ask for a smaller one if it hurts. They just donโ€™t offer that info out!โ€ โ€” smileylinzi

โ€œLumps in your breasts are not always cancer! Of course get them checked out, but it is COMMON to find cysts in your breasts! DO NOT STEW FOR MONTHS. GO TO THE DOCTOR ASAP.โ€ โ€” Jenyweny09

โ€œNot only do you get to say no whenever you want, you also get to say yes when you want! Donโ€™t let society teach you that you need to act shy or play games in order to be desirable. As a society, in order to stand our ground that no means no, women must also be willing to express when itโ€™s a yes.โ€ โ€” Sipyloidea

โ€œItโ€™s pretty normal to have some level of diarrhea/weird poops when youโ€™re on your period. Sorry itโ€™s a thing, but if youโ€™re reading this Iโ€™m glad you donโ€™t need to get to like 30 before finding out it isnโ€™t just you like I did.โ€ โ€” InannasPocket

โ€œYour safety is always more important than a manโ€™s feelings. If you feel unsafe, protect yourself first, think about how others may perceive you later.โ€ โ€” SemiSweetStrawberry

โ€œVulvas and breasts come in a wide variety of configurations. The range of normal is huge, please do not rely on porn or any pop-culture depictions to decide if what youโ€™ve got is normal.โ€ โ€” InannasPocket

โ€œClean your makeup brushes. Your skin will thank you.โ€ โ€” bdp9850

โ€œJust because there is another female present doesnโ€™t mean you are automatically safe. Women can be predators too.โ€ โ€” spamari

โ€œIf a doctor quickly dismisses your extreme menstrual pain (or any type of pain for that matter) as being โ€˜normalโ€™ or that youโ€™re too โ€˜sensitiveโ€™, try to seek a second opinion. My โ€˜normalโ€™ pain turned out to be endometriosis.โ€ โ€” BranwenTheRiveter

โ€œMagnesium helps with period cramps when taken as a daily vitamin. Has saved my life on many occasions. โ€” mdaws7

โ€œWhere you are in your menstrual cycle can effect your immune system. Ovulation = lower immune system. Reasoning for it is to try to promote a pregnancy. Your immune system, basically, knows whatโ€™s you and what isnโ€™t you and will attack what isnโ€™t you. Sperm isnโ€™t you. A zygote/embryo is half you, half not you and might get attacked. Itโ€™s why your skin may look better while youโ€™re ovulating and itโ€™s why pregnant women are immunosuppressed. Period = strong immune system. It may be why you feel like shit before you get your period and why all those pimples pop up. Your body is now fighting off crap that your ovulation period let slip through, including pimples. We have no control over this. Thatโ€™s the part that kills me, we have zero control.โ€ โ€” RU_screw

โ€œDonโ€™t hold different standards for yourself that you wouldnโ€™t hold for the ones you care about.โ€ โ€” ArmadilloTight

โ€œItโ€™s okay to be rude if someone wonโ€™t leave you alone. You donโ€™t owe anyone your time or energy.โ€ โ€” Jerkrollatex