19 Underrated Social Gestures That Will Make People Like You More

“Telling someone ‘text me when you get home safe.’ Regardless of the type of relationship I have with someone, I always feel really cared about when they say that.” — tersity

“Texting whoever you just spent some time with saying, ‘I had fun today! Thanks!’ Always makes me so happy.” — fineapplekisses

“Sending a simple but sincere ‘thank you’ note when someone has given you a gift or done something special for you.” — Back2Bach

“I have a classmate who always refers to me by name whenever she says hello or goodbye. It’s nice to hear that somebody remembers your name, makes you feel very important to them. “ — HailToTheThief225

“Asking someone to repeat themselves when they get cut off by someone else in the conversation.” — NHVreddit

“Small compliments. Shit like, ‘That shirt looks great on you!’ Can mean a lot. As a guy, I receive basically one compliment per year.” — panda388

“Every time there’s a new person at work, I recall what it was like being the new guy and go out my way to make them feel comfortable and let them know that I’ll answer any questions judgement free.” — RalfHorris

“Introductions. It takes ten seconds and makes the shy and socially inept feel quite a bit better.” — dottmatrix

“When someone holds the elevator doors open when you’re just a few seconds away.” — locheness4

“Eye contact and listening, and I mean listening not waiting for your turn to speak, those are two very different things and most people can easily tell the difference. Learning to truly listen to people can improve your life in many ways.” — Ragnar_of_Ireland

“When someone lets you into a lane. Thanks for not being a jerk!!” — pigstuffy

“I try to have water bottles or soda every time I have workmen over to my house or furniture/appliance delivery people. They work hard and I’m usually pretty late into their delivery day so I figure a little treat is appreciated (on top of a tip . . . I’m not a monster).” — Nobodyville

“Taking you bag of the seat on the bus/train if others are looking for a place to sit.” — darybrain

“Recognizing a coworker’s contribution to your team’s/organization’s success — regardless of how big or small it is.” — edgar__allan__bro

“Holding a friggin door for someone. IT TAKES 2 BLOODY SECONDS.” — liamthetall

“Letting the person with only a few things to buy pass you in line if you have lots of things.” — Stickyballs96

“Letting someone merge into traffic in front of you when you can tell they’re having a hard time. Alternately, throwing up a hand to thank someone who has let you merge.” — wimaine

“Looking someone in the eyes when you shake their hand. And for that matter, a proper firm handshake during introductions.” — Isurfajellyfish

“Saying ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ when asking for and receiving help. It’s not much but it can change the attitude someone has towards to you.” — IWatchTheAbyss