22 Women Answer The Question “What Do Girls Never Tell Guys?”
There might be some truth when it comes to the stereotype that guys don’t understand women. Maybe if we told them all the things we keep to ourselves that would help? So when a reddit user asked what girls never tell guys, there were some fire answers. Read on if you want a peek behind the curtain.
Pretty Beautiful
Sometimes we think men are pretty. Pretty as in “the way your eyes are shining in the sunlight reminds me of fireflies” or “your lips look plump and soft and the way your brow furrows when you’re concentrating makes me smile.” But we also know men don’t typically like being called pretty because they’ll think we don’t see them as men. Like we’re feminizing them, but I cannot express how much I wish I could call men pretty without upsetting them.
u/Defiant-Insectoid
Limited Compliments
We don’t compliment you as much because we’re afraid you’ll think we’re interested in you sexually.
u/ChgItToRayGunYouFuck
It’s Not Your Looks
Your looks are almost never the problem when we don’t want to go further with you.
u/Kyomobiya
Yay for Butts
Women love butts. Women absolutely love men’s butts. Women want men with nice butts.
u/SLEDGEHAMMAA
The Anxiety is Mutual
Sometimes we’re really scared to talk to you, too.
u/__lavenderbabe
Bathroom Chats Remain a Mystery
Specifically what was discussed in the bathroom.
u/BigPZ
Women Talk
That we girl friends discuss each and everything with each other. So, if you’re flirting with two friends simultaneously, there is a high chance that both of them are laughing at your texts behind your back.
u/hangrybird1
Demonic Sleepovers
The demonic rituals we did as children at sleepovers.
u/pink_wraith
Those Beautiful Lashes
That many men have been blessed with perfectly thick, long, luscious eyelashes and us girls are a bit jelly of that fact.
u/PlantSunFlowers
We Really Don’t Know What’s Wrong
That we sometimes just don’t know why we’re mad or upset. Hormones can be depressing. Even if we’re in our 30s and been dealing with this shit for ages. Sometimes we’ll just be a little bit less ourselves and feel sad. Saying nothing is wrong is maybe easier than saying I don’t know what tf is wrong. “What do you need?” Is what my husband asks and it really helps. It’s either cuddles or to be left alone for the whole day!
u/clara_d3
Hair, Everywhere
We remove hair a lot more than just our legs, bikini, and armpits.
It differs for us all. Stomachs, sideburns, upper lip, chin, nose, nipples, chest, feet, toes, arms. Pretty much anywhere men grow hair.. we got it. Always great when it’s just peach fuzz. But not always the case!
u/annniiitttaaaaa
Holding Ourselves Going Down Stairs
Catch me sprinting down the stairs like a crazed reindeer doin the full arm titty scoop so I can jump those last 6 stairs without discomfort.
u/HangLuce
Fast Cars and Annoyed Women
When you drive really fast I don’t think it’s cool I think you’re an inconsiderate arsehole.
u/Born_Bother_7179
Our Poor Bras…
Sometimes we don’t wash our bras for weeks.
u/dizzycrazycheesy
Listeners Wanted
Idk if this is for all girls but from my own personal experience, when I vent, I don’t want advice. I want someone who will listen and not judge.
u/PurelyNegative
No Vulnerability Here
That women also often bottle up their feelings and are afraid to be vulnerable around others.
u/ShufflingOffACliff
Hidden Secrets
The tampon box in the closet is where I hid the good chocolate.
u/MalsPrettyBonnet
The Bloodbath
How much blood comes out and the jelly-like stuff during our periods.
u/CA_catwhispurr
That Scraping Sensation
How painful taking out a dry tampon is. Feels like your insides are being scraped out
u/Endoftheline0916
The Distraction
The entire time you were talking to me I was bleeding through my tampon and didn’t follow a word you said because I’m wondering if I have another fucking tampon in my bag.
u/dragnbyte
The Dirty Hair Hairstyles
Always so funny when I have my hair in French/Dutch braids and someone compliments them but all I can think is “you have no idea how badly I need to wash that.”
u/isakeijser
We Know
We know when you’re staring … 😉
u/ativangirl