22 Women Answer The Question “What Do Girls Never Tell Guys?”

Updated 2 years ago, February 10 2022
Relationships

There might be some truth when it comes to the stereotype that guys don’t understand women. Maybe if we told them all the things we keep to ourselves that would help? So when a reddit user asked what girls never tell guys, there were some fire answers. Read on if you want a peek behind the curtain.

Pretty Beautiful

Sometimes we think men are pretty. Pretty as in “the way your eyes are shining in the sunlight reminds me of fireflies” or “your lips look plump and soft and the way your brow furrows when you’re concentrating makes me smile.” But we also know men don’t typically like being called pretty because they’ll think we don’t see them as men. Like we’re feminizing them, but I cannot express how much I wish I could call men pretty without upsetting them.
u/Defiant-Insectoid

Limited Compliments

We don’t compliment you as much because we’re afraid you’ll think we’re interested in you sexually.
u/ChgItToRayGunYouFuck

It’s Not Your Looks

Your looks are almost never the problem when we don’t want to go further with you.
u/Kyomobiya

Yay for Butts

Women love butts. Women absolutely love men’s butts. Women want men with nice butts.
u/SLEDGEHAMMAA

The Anxiety is Mutual

Sometimes we’re really scared to talk to you, too.
u/__lavenderbabe

Bathroom Chats Remain a Mystery

Specifically what was discussed in the bathroom.
u/BigPZ

Women Talk

That we girl friends discuss each and everything with each other. So, if you’re flirting with two friends simultaneously, there is a high chance that both of them are laughing at your texts behind your back.
u/hangrybird1

Demonic Sleepovers

The demonic rituals we did as children at sleepovers.
u/pink_wraith

Those Beautiful Lashes

That many men have been blessed with perfectly thick, long, luscious eyelashes and us girls are a bit jelly of that fact.
u/PlantSunFlowers

We Really Don’t Know What’s Wrong

That we sometimes just don’t know why we’re mad or upset. Hormones can be depressing. Even if we’re in our 30s and been dealing with this shit for ages. Sometimes we’ll just be a little bit less ourselves and feel sad. Saying nothing is wrong is maybe easier than saying I don’t know what tf is wrong. “What do you need?” Is what my husband asks and it really helps. It’s either cuddles or to be left alone for the whole day!
u/clara_d3

Hair, Everywhere

We remove hair a lot more than just our legs, bikini, and armpits.
It differs for us all. Stomachs, sideburns, upper lip, chin, nose, nipples, chest, feet, toes, arms. Pretty much anywhere men grow hair.. we got it. Always great when it’s just peach fuzz. But not always the case!
u/annniiitttaaaaa

Holding Ourselves Going Down Stairs

Catch me sprinting down the stairs like a crazed reindeer doin the full arm titty scoop so I can jump those last 6 stairs without discomfort.
u/HangLuce

Fast Cars and Annoyed Women

When you drive really fast I don’t think it’s cool I think you’re an inconsiderate arsehole.
u/Born_Bother_7179

Our Poor Bras…

Sometimes we don’t wash our bras for weeks.
u/dizzycrazycheesy

Listeners Wanted

Idk if this is for all girls but from my own personal experience, when I vent, I don’t want advice. I want someone who will listen and not judge.
u/PurelyNegative

No Vulnerability Here

That women also often bottle up their feelings and are afraid to be vulnerable around others.
u/ShufflingOffACliff

Hidden Secrets

The tampon box in the closet is where I hid the good chocolate.
u/MalsPrettyBonnet

The Bloodbath

How much blood comes out and the jelly-like stuff during our periods.
u/CA_catwhispurr

That Scraping Sensation

How painful taking out a dry tampon is. Feels like your insides are being scraped out
u/Endoftheline0916

The Distraction

The entire time you were talking to me I was bleeding through my tampon and didn’t follow a word you said because I’m wondering if I have another fucking tampon in my bag.
u/dragnbyte

The Dirty Hair Hairstyles

Always so funny when I have my hair in French/Dutch braids and someone compliments them but all I can think is “you have no idea how badly I need to wash that.”
u/isakeijser