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3 Zodiacs Who Are Secretly Afraid That They’re Unlovable

It’s natural to wonder whether you’re going to find your person, especially if you’ve been single for a while. Even if you know you have plenty to offer, there will still be doubts in the back of your mind, keeping you awake at night. But this happens to some signs more than others. Here are some zodiacs who are worried they’re unlovable, but would never admit it out loud:

Aries

Aries come across as strong and independent — and that’s not a lie. But people contain multitudes. Even though they’re usually choosing to be single, and are happy to be single, there are still moments when they stop to wonder whether they’re ever going to find their person. Moments when they worry that others will consider them too independent and blunt and stubborn to form a serious relationship with. Those doubts usually don’t last long because Aries are great at pumping themselves up and recognizing their own potential, but it does happen from time to time. Of course, an Aries would never admit it out loud. When they’re around others, they will talk a big game about how much they love themselves and act like they are confident AF. And that’s mostly true. At least, they want it to be true.

Gemini

Geminis act like they’re completely fine with the single life, and most of the time this is completely true, but a part of them worries that their relationships will always be short-lived, that others only want them around to have a good time. This sign is worried that once another person sees the real them, the sides of themselves that aren’t all fun and games, that they’re going to run away. Gemini might seem like they put all their cards on the table, but really, there is a lot that they don’t show to the public. There are secrets they are scared to reveal, even once they grow close to someone, because they don’t want to be judged or pitied. Even though Geminis come across as confident, bubbly signs, they are worried that people only love the character that they’re playing, and not the real them.

Scorpio

When someone hurts this sign, they are going to act like they couldn’t care less. They are going to trash talk that person and make it clear that they didn’t want a relationship anyway. But this isn’t one hundred percent true. Scorpios like to use their anger to cover up their feelings of hurt and disappointment. They will pretend like they hate the other person after heartbreaks and rejection because it’s easier than admitting that they genuinely cared about that person and are grieving their loss. Scorpios would never admit it, but they take bad news harder than they let on. There are moments when they wonder whether they are unlovable, whether they’re the problem even though they act like the other person is clearly the issue. This sign is way more self-conscious than you would ever think by looking at them.