Scorpio Personality Traits, Compatibility & More

An enigmatic, mysterious physic personality with a secretive, emotional side.

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A graphic illustrating the personality of the Scorpio zodiac sign.
According to the AstroTwins, “Scorpio is the sign that rules life, death, and resurrection.”  They often focus on transformation and rebirthing into newer, more aligned versions of themselves.

If your birthday falls between October 23rd and November 22, you’re part of the intense, mysterious Scorpio signs.  Scorpio is the 8th zodiac sign on the wheel between Libra and Sagittarius, and they are often typed as reserved and private compared to their more sociable, jovial neighbors.  Scorpio zodiac signs are often deeply intuitive, have a sharp mind, and have an almost magnetic appeal to them, but they also are protective, emotional, and dedicated to the people they love. Those who know or are close to a Scorpio know they are reserved but are much more than meets the eye once they open up.

If Scorpio personality was a city, they would be New York City. This connection highlights their dynamic, intense personality and the ever-present undercurrent of power and mystery.

Scorpio Personality Traits

Scorpios are interested in bonding about the bigger things in life, especially more taboo topics such as death, sex, or anything that isn’t often considered “polite” conversation.

Scorpios have a complex and intriguing personality, often eliciting strong reactions from those they encounter. They often have “love them or hate them” reputation. They can be deeply fixed, secretive, and highly perceptive, making them a sign to be both admired and feared. As a member of the zodiac community, Scorpios are known for their passionate and intense nature. Their strengths and weaknesses showcase the multifaceted aspects of their character.

Here is a more detailed look at the greatest strengths and weaknesses of Scorpios:

Scorpio Strengths

  • Determination: Scorpios are unwavering in their pursuit of their goals and ambitions, often going to great lengths to achieve them.
  • Intuition: With a strong sense of intuition, they can understand people and situations at a deeper level, making them highly perceptive.
  • Protectiveness: Scorpios are unmistakably loyal and devoted to those who earn their trust. They will always keep your secrets. They can be exceptionally protective, even jealous, if they feel someone or something is intruding on their carefully constructed life and circle.
  • Sensuality: They aren’t afraid aren’t afraid to embrace the physical side of themselves when the time arises.
  • Boldness: Scorpios are unafraid to take risks and face challenges, making them strong and resilient in various situations.

Scorpio Weaknesses

  • Immense jealousy: Scorpios often feel a sense of entitlement to those they hold close, and this can lead to feelings of jealousy if they believe a person isn’t giving the attention or emotion they expect in a relationship.
  • Vindictiveness: If they feel wronged or betrayed, they can become vengeful and may seek karmic retribution, making it difficult for them to let go of past grievances.
  • Controlling tendencies: Their fixed nature can lead them to desire control in various aspects of their life, which may strain relationships with others who feel restricted by their controlling behavior.
  • Hesitancy to trust: While they desire deep connections, they can be hesitant to open up and trust others, which may hinder the development of meaningful relationships.

Things That Make Scorpio Happy

Scorpios may like underwater photography as it merges their passion for exploration and mystery in the largely unexplored ocean.

Scorpios are happiest when they experience deep connections and personal growth through understanding and emotional resonance. They are also happy in competitive environments.

Here are a few insights into the key things for a flourishing life as a Scorpio:

  • Unraveling Mysteries: solving puzzles, escape rooms, hiking or exploring the unknown can be very appealing to Scorpios. They love to uncover secrets and dive into the far edges of things.
  • Creative Expression: Activities that allow Scorpios to express their intense emotions and thoughts creatively, such as painting, writing, or playing music, can be particularly fulfilling. Sometimes creative expression can also be expressed via avenues like business ideas or even academic/research work.
  • Thrilling Experiences + Intense Physical Activities: Scorpios may enjoy activities that give them an adrenaline rush, such as skydiving, scuba diving, or other extreme sports. Or they might just be inclined to love any intense physical exercise from pickleball to wrestling to basketball.
  • Scorpio Hobbies: Astrology and occult studies, creative writing, martial arts, psychology and behavioral studies, yoga, underwater photography, investigative research, chess, thriller and mystery novels, painting and drawing,

Scorpio Dislikes

The one things Scorpios can’t stand is dishonesty. If they feel someone has betrayed their trust, gone against them in some way, or is being fake, Scorpios have no problem walking away. Scorpios are extremely loyal, loving, and transparent so not being able to trust someone (even slightly) is a dealbreaker for them. They also hate superficial, egotistical people, societies, and groups that lack anything real about them. They tend to steer away from social media, pop culture, and anything else that feels performative.

Scorpio Aesthetic/Style

When you think of a Scorpio aesthetic, you may automatically picture black clothing from head to toe—and you’re not entirely off base. Scorpio signs want to be taken seriously, and often choose clothing that makes them feel powerful. Their selections may range from minimalist and neutral to more gothic and demonstrative, but it’s important to them to curate a personal style. They enjoy looking polished and chic but aren’t afraid to embrace more “edgy” materials such as leather, latex, or even mesh—yet their inclusion is very intentional, not just something they throw on. Their power color is black, and they have limitless inclusions of the hue in their wardrobe that can work for any situation. Scorpios prefer to exude a mysterious vibe and aren’t afraid to be a bold presence in a room, no matter what they’re wearing.

Scorpio Career Paths

Scorpios excel as solo learners due to their investigative nature. They often exceed expectations, delving deeper and acquiring more knowledge than necessary.

Scorpios are intense and meticulous. They have an amazing capacity to block out distractions, concentrate, and focus on a task at hand. Scorpios have an intrinsic curiosity and desire to learn. Not to mention, they’re extremely independent and headstrong which leads them to consistently have big breakthroughs. However, their intense independence causes them to work best with lots of freedom.

Top career paths for Scorpio:

  • Surgeon
  • Lawyer
  • Crime detective

Scorpio Humor

Scorpios are the rulers of sarcasm. They will always have something to say and can often come off as rude to those who do not know them well enough. They constantly comment on things and can use passive-aggressive humor to get their point across.

Scorpio Fun Facts

If Scorpio was…

  • A Starbucks Drink: Iced caramel macchiato
  • A Greek God:  Aries—god of war
  • An Addiction: Internet
  • An Alcoholic Beverage: Tequila
  • In a High-school Clique:  Goth kids
  • A City: New York City
  • A Harry Potter House: Ravenclaw
  • An Untranslatable French Phrase: ‘Jolie laide’—beautiful ugly
  • A Teen Movie: “10 Things I Hate About You”
  • A Clothing Item: Little black dress
  • A Famous Landmark: Pyramids
  • A Season: Winter

What All Signs Can Expect During Scorpio Season

Scorpio season is a time for radical transformation and self-confidence. During this season, all signs can expect to harness the intense energy of Scorpio and manifest it in their own life. This could mean a month of daring change and transparency but it could also mean a vengeful time riddled with jealousy, bickering, and discontentment; it all depends on how you use the Scorpio spirit.

At the very least, Scorpio season is known for its ability to peel away anything superficial and unveil what is real. We may feel the desire to take a step back and honestly reassess the close relationships we have or to do some inner healing work. Welcome it as a season of honestly, growth, and a time to achieve what you truly want.

Scorpio Relationship Compatibility

Scorpio may have a reputation for being a passionate, intense romantic partner, but how can one determine if they are the perfect candidate as a Scorpio soulmate? When it comes to compatibility, Scorpio signs need a person who they can fully trust, someone not intimidated by their emotional nature, and someone thoroughly loyal. They also have a soft spot for partners who don’t beat around the bush and are straightforward with them in terms of priorities, as well as those who are certain of what they want. 

Scorpios make incredibly devoted partners who are profoundly in tune with their emotions and yours as well.

Most Compatible Signs

Scorpios usually gravitate towards are Cancer, Pisces, and Taurus. Cancer and Pisces are fellow water signs with a deep emotional depth and understanding that Scorpio appreciates. While each sign may approach their emotions differently, there is a sense of understanding and shared intent that makes it easier to connect.

Most compatible signs for Scorpios:

  • Cancer: Cancer and Scorpio aren’t afraid of each other’s big emotions and they have a desire for security. This partnership leads to a long life full of thoughtful conversation, deep connection, and thorough trust in each other.
  • Pisces: Scorpio and Pisces often bond over their unique intuitive approaches to life. Scorpio helps to balance Pisces insecurities and reassure them that they are worthy of so much love. These signs both feel deeply and when matched, they are sure to have a long partnership full of care and mutual healing from past wounds through their boundless love.
  • Taurus: Taurus is on the opposite side of the zodiac wheel from Scorpio, but they share a remarkable foundation of loyalty, directness, and a clear picture of what they want in life (these two can certainly but heads in stubbornness, but are passionate when on the same page). Taurus isn’t afraid to be patient and build trust, giving Scorpio plenty of time to let their walls down and know they are secure. Scorpios are devoted and to the point, pushing Taurus to grow in a non-threatening manner.

It’s also worth noting that Scorpio signs are compatible with Capricorn and Virgo, the remaining Earth signs. 

Least Compatible Signs

In general, Scorpios are least compatible with air signs (Gemini, Aquarius, & Libra) and fire signs (Leo, Aries, & Sagittarius). Scorpio’s deep emotions and beliefs tend to clash with an air signs logical capability. Air signs have more trouble dwelling on emotions for too long while Scorpios enjoy wading into them.

Fire signs tend to be too exploratory for Scorpio; they need constant action and adventure while Scorpio seeks a more balanced life. Not to mention, it’s difficult for a Scorpio to handle a fire sign’s need for constant affection and nurturing because it clashes with their extreme confidence and self-sufficiency.

Least compatible signs for Scorpios:

  • Gemini
  • Aquarius
  • Aries
  • Leo

Scorpio in Love and Dating

A Scorpio in love is riddled with passion and the desire for intimacy (through conversation and physically). Their fearless nature pushes them to be thoroughly transparent with partners they feel comfortable with and they ask for, require, and depend on a deep-seeded trust in any relationship.

Many Scorpios battle long-term trust issues as their biggest fear is secretly betrayal and unfaithfulness. This one fear can often drive them to bouts of jealousy, possessiveness, and obsession if not handled properly.

But on the positive side, when a Scorpio is in a healthy, honest relationship, they thrive and are entirely devoted to their partner.

Key traits of a Scorpio in love:

  • Devotion
  • Passionate
  • Intimate
  • Jealous
  • Deep conversation
  • Emotional

Scorpio Family Members

Scorpios are classic for holding grudges and angst over any unresolved issues or trauma, which is why many of them have troubled relationships with their family. However, their fierce loyalty and profound emotional intuition inspires them to build the family they’ve always desired and take care of any family members they feel akin to. They make incredible parents who are dedicated to their children’s success and want to be present for every family moment.

Scorpio parents are loving, dedicated, and always want to be engrained in their child’s everyday life.

Qualities of a Scorpio family member:

  • Dependable
  • Caring
  • Thoughtful
  • Dedicated

Scorpio Friendships

A Scorpio friend is likely full of sarcastic humor, memorable adventures, and deeply honest conversations. Scorpios are upfront and are never afraid to say what is on their mind or protect someone they love. They make loyal friends who will stand by you for a lifetime, as long as you never turn your back on them.

Scorpios are friends that are loyal to their core and will stand by you for life.

Top signs for friendship compatibility:

  • Cancer
  • Capricorn
  • Pisces

Scorpio Symbology

Scorpios can bring an intense energy because they are often very sure of themselves and don’t fear much. That’s why they are linked to a variety of symbols linked to strength, power, and ferocity.

Scorpio Glyph/Symbol

The m in the symbol dashes away, another reference to the tranformative power of Scorpios.

The symbol or glyph representing Scorpio is depicted as a capital letter “M” ending in a pointed tail, in reference to the Scorpion animal that represents the water sign.

Scorpio Animal

The scorpion is known for its formidable defense mechanism, using its venomous tail as a powerful tool for protection and hunting.

As this sign’s name suggests, the animal that represents Scorpio is non-other than the scorpion. With its sharp, poisonous tail and shell-like exterior, the animal is a good representation of the defensive, reserved nature of the sign. Scorpions aren’t ones to chase or hunt down prey/opponents—they lay in wait for the opportune moment to strike, which falls right in line with the way Scorpios often approach life. Scorpios may appear intimidating, yet aren’t ones to attack or lash out unless provoked, yet the scorpion association often causes stereotypes of the sign that aren’t as flattering. Yet their power and fearlessness are part of what makes Scorpios so intoxicating to begin with.

Scorpio Birthstone

Topaz, often associated with the qualities of strength and intelligence, is a gemstone believed to have the ability to calm emotions and protect its wearers from harm.

The birthstone for Scorpio signs is Topaz. Topaz comes in different shades—the blue (and more popular) version of the stone is linked to communication and action, two fundamental traits to a Scorpio. Yellow topaz is connected to relationships and their improvement, and is even thought to help fight against jealous traits, which can be very beneficial for Scorpios who struggle to maintain their jealous emotions, 

Scorpio Element

While Scorpios can sometimes come off ‘fiery’ in their self-confident and fearless spirit, they are actually a water sign.

Despite their “fiery” nature, Scorpios are actually a water sign, along with Cancer and Pisces. Water signs are often described as emotional, intense, and fairly sentimental. They tend to lean into their emotions and can be sensitive to the world around them, and are often thought to have plenty of compassion and empathy. They aren’t afraid to discuss or maneuver their emotions, which is often a huge asset in a world that portrays emotion as a weakness. Water signs are the type of person you want if you’re looking to connect on a deep level. 

Scorpio Modality

The modality for Scorpios is Fixed, along with Taurus, Aquarius, and Leo. Fixed signs are typically depicted as those who are determined and a bit set in their ways. They are the ones to hold fast to their convictions, and it takes a large amount of determination and circumstance to sway them. These signs keep things grounded and steady and are the ones you want in your corner to see things through to the very end. If you want your ideas and plans to come to fruition, you’ll need a Fixed sign on your team to ensure things stay on course. 

Scorpio Planetary Ruler

Mars and Pluto are the two planets most intricately linked with the zodiac zodiac sign.

Each zodiac sign is ruled by a particular planet in the solar system—yet for some zodiac signs, multiple planets may hold rulership. In the case of Scorpio, the two planets are Mars and Pluto. In traditional astrology, Scorpio is thought to be ruled by Mars (along with the fire sign Aries). Mars is the planet of action, drive, ambition, war, and anger. While Aries embodies the planet’s fiery, ambitious, almost impulsive nature, Scorpio manifests different traits. Scorpio is certainly a sign of action, but only at the perfect time and place. This sign is intrigued by power, and has the desire to be in positions of authority and influence. They also have a relentless drive, in multiple facets, and won’t give up unless they have no other choice. Scorpio benefits from the determined, driven, powerful aspects of Mars, and embodies them well.

However, in modern astrology, Scorpio is often thought to pull ruled by Pluto. 

Pluto is the planet of rebirth, reformation, destruction, and all things taboo—very much in tune with the ideals of Scorpio. Pluto, the farthest from the Sun, takes its time to orbit and isn’t in a rush to accomplish what it desires. When it shows up in an area of life, it means business, and much like Scorpio, it won’t hesitate to tear things down to rebuild them into something better. 

Scorpio House Ruler

Scorpio signs are typically ruled by the eighth house on the astrological wheel, representing Shared Resources, Intimacy, Sex, Death, and Transformation. It’s also a house that involves all things taboo, including secrets. This house is often associated with the things that bond us to others or the things that push us to reinvent ourselves on an inner level. 

Scorpio Tarot Card

The tarot card associated with Scorpio signs is the “Death” card.

Despite its ominous name, this card actually represents transformation and growth. The card depicts a skeleton in armor riding a horse with a dead man lying on the ground, which is thought to represent the shedding of an old version of yourself and letting go of the past to accept the future. The skeleton is demonstrative of what remains after transformation and is a card intent on pushing for reexamination and letting go of what holds a person back to become their best self, even if challenging to do so. Sounds pretty in line with Scorpio themes, if you ask us!

Scorpio Part of The Body 

The part of the body ruled by Scorpio are the hips, reproductive system, and genitals. This association reflects the common stereotype of Scorpios being immensely sensual. However, it shouldn’t be overlooked that these parts of the body also are linked to protection and even the possibility of birth in some cases, both of which tie into Scorpio’s personality. It’s important for Scorpios to ensure they have regular health checks and exercise their hip muscles, as these parts of the body can be easily overlooked if not given intentional care. 

Astrology Big Three — Scorpio Edition

A common term in astrology is someone’s “big three,” which consists of a person’s sun sign, moon sign, and rising sign. Your sun sign represents your core traits while your moon sign speaks to your emotional landscape and your rising sign displays how you appear in the world.

Your sun sign is coordinated by the day you were born. For example, someone who is a Scorpio sun sign is born between the dates of October 23rd and November 21st. Your moon sign is coordinated by the placement of the moon on the exact time you were born. Your rising sign, also known as your ‘ascendant sign,’ is calculated by the exact time of your birth on your birthday. All of these signs can be found by having your full birth chart calculated.

Scorpio Sun

Scorpios are known to be loyal, ambitious, and incessantly driven. Scorpios do not shy away from their dreams as their determined nature helps them truly believe that they can conquer anything. This same sturdy nature causes them to be extremely dependable and loyal if you are in their inner circle. 

However, their strong-willed disposition can often make them stubborn and steadfast in their opinions when it comes to addressing conflict. Not to mention, they have a strong knack for jealousy and manipulation if they feel betrayed. Trust issues are something they will battle their whole life, but with the right people, they are willing to let their walls down and show their soft side.

Scorpio Moon

The moon sign in astrology is most closely associated with a person’s emotions and inner world. Scorpio moons are often viewed as a bit of a paradox; they are highly in tune with their emotions, yet aren’t prone to divulging them freely. This often gives many the interpretation that Scorpio moons are emotionless, cold, or distant. However, Scorpio moon signs have intense emotional needs, and may even be overwhelmed by the strength and intensity of their emotions. These moon signs are loyal and prone to sensitivity, and are deeply invested in processing their feelings privately. They often can tell if something is wrong with someone else and may even make it a habit to focus on others’ emotional situations to avoid discussing or revealing their own. 

In many cases, a Scorpio moon may best show their emotions through quality time or words of affirmation. Scorpio moons are at their best when they are able to spend plenty of time amongst those they love and when communication is open and given freely. To Scorpios, connection is of the utmost importance, as it lays a strong foundation for their emotional needs and vulnerability. 

Scorpio Rising 

The rising sign in astrology is the version of yourself that you present to the world—the side of you that others see. This is also the aspect of yourself that most closely ties into your identity and your appearance. Scorpio risings often are reserved, and may even appear introverted initially. They tend to hang back in a crowd and are incredibly perceptive as they try to “feel out” others in a group.  They are often described as magnetic, and some are drawn to them, though others may find them intimidating. 

Regarding appearance, Scorpio Risings are most known for their striking, penetrative eyes. They often have sharp features and may have a strong or muscular build. The sign may move between extremes when it comes to their mannerisms—either shy and stoic or more demonstrative and bold, depending on the social circle. They enjoy one-on-one conversations and are big about eye contact as a form of establishing a connection, but they won’t be overtly affectionate unless they feel completely at ease with a person. 

Famous Scorpio Celebrities

Some notable people with a Sun Sign in Scorpio include:

  • Hillary Clinton, former first lady, 1947
  • Anne Hathaway, actress, 1982
  • Drake, rapper, 1986
  • Katy Perry, singer, 1984
  • Emma Stone, actress, 1988
  • John Adams, 2nd president of the United States, 1735
  • James K. Polk, 11th president of the United States, 1795
  • Theodore Roosevelt,  26th president of the United States, 1858
  • Sylvia Plath, poet/writer, 1932
  • Stefano Gabbana, fashion designer, 1962
  • Calvin Klein, fashion designer, 1942
  • Leonardo DiCaprio, actor, 1974
  • Bill Gates, business magnate/philanthropist, 1955
  • Willow Smith, singer/actress, 2000
  • Kendall Jenner, model/television personality, 1995
  • Tyga, rapper, 1989
  • Lamar Odom, professional basketball player, 1979
  • Puff Daddy, rapper, 1969
  • Shailene Woodley, actress, 1991
  • Lorde, singer/songwriter, 1996
  • Emma Stone, actress, 1988
  • Ryan Gosling, actor, 1980
  • Ryan Reynolds, actor, 1976
  • Julia Roberts, actress, 1967
  • Whoopi Goldberg, actress/television personality, 1955