4 Birth Months Who Care So Much It Hurts

Feeling deeply can be a blessing and a curse. It can help you form deep, meaningful connections with other human beings – but it can also cause you to suffer when you lose those human beings, or when they’re simply going through a tough time and there’s nothing you can do to help them. Here are the birth months who care so much that it hurts:

March

You care about everyone who enters your life deeply, just like you care deeply about every project that you start and passion that you develop. You can never do anything halfway. You always want to go above and beyond in your work and your relationships. Although caring so much can be painful at times, you need to remember that it’s a good thing you wear your heart on your sleeve. It’s a good thing that you’re so open and vulnerable. Most people hide their hearts away, only to regret it. But you love fully. You make the most of every single moment. And you should be proud of yourself for that.

July

When you enter a relationship, you care so much that it hurts. This can be frustrating when your partner isn’t giving you as much attention as you’re giving them, or when they walk away and you need to learn to live without them. Heartbreak is extra intense for you because you never keep pieces of your heart closed off. You offer it to your partner fully. So when your heart is broken, it’s not easy to fix. You’re going to take a while to put the pieces back together, but that’s okay. That means you let yourself care. And most people can’t say the same. Most people are too scared to get attached. They might not get as hurt badly as you do in the end, but they never enjoy their experiences as fully as you do either.

October

You care so much that it hurts. While you’re proud of how much love you have to give to your family and friends, you wish you didn’t care so deeply about what strangers think about you. You wish that their opinions didn’t matter to you – but they do. You can’t stand when it seems like someone is upset with you, or like they disapprove of your decisions, or like they want nothing to do with you. You want everyone to like you – but that’s an impossible standard to reach. You have to learn to accept that some people will never be a fan of yours, and that’s okay. You already have the love from the people who truly matter.

May

You care so much that it hurts, and you wouldn’t have it any other way. Even though your heartbreaks are intense, so are your relationships. You give your partners your whole heart, you let yourself get swept up in your emotions for them, and it’s a beautiful feeling. After all, you believe the people you love deserve to know how deeply they are loved, so you would never hold yourself back. You’re happy to care as much as you care. And you know that the right person would love this about you too.