4 Birth Months You Don’t Want To Argue With

Some people just aren’t worth arguing with because you know they will never, ever back down.

Even when they know they are wrong, they dig in their heels and keep fighting. Whether they can’t stand to be wrong or simply enjoy debating for sport, certain birth months can’t be defeated in an argument. Here are the four star signs you should never pick a fight with, and how the month we arrive in explains their stubbornly combative personalities. 

April

Those born in April are probably the most argumentative birth month, and nobody stands a chance in a fight against them. That’s because those born in April are ruled by Mars, the planet of war, action, passion, and aggression. This star sign is quick to anger and won’t hesitate to speak up when they feel slighted. They’ll also jump to the defense of others or get heated when a touchy subject comes up. Basically, they are always ready and looking for a fight. They thrive on conflict and love flexing their debate muscles.

April natives are also a fire sign, and fire sign natives are known for being temperamental, energetic, and impulsive. They act before they think, which can lead to arguments or escalate them. As a natural element, fire is destructive, burning everything in its path – much like someone born in April on a rampage. People born in April are also perhaps the most competitive star sign, and they refuse to lose anything, even a silly little argument. They won’t agree to disagree, and they won’t apologize just to keep the peace if they don’t really mean it.

The good news is that, as quickly as April’ temper flares, it’s just as swift to cool off. Once they’ve made their point clear and calmed down, they will come back with an apology, but only if they truly feel like they’re wrong. Otherwise, they will hold their stance until the other person backs down. 

August

Good luck winning an argument against this ferocious fire sign. This zodiac is represented by the lion, which tells us that those born in August are used to being the leader of the pack. It also means they have a powerful, intimidating presence – and their tempers can be terrifying when provoked. 

Those with August birthdays don’t necessarily go looking for fights, but they will absolutely stand their ground if someone picks an argument with them. Those born in August are fixed signs, and fixed signs are stubborn and unyielding. They won’t listen to reason and it’s impossible to change their minds. Whatever their opinion is, they’ve already decided it and no amount of debating or coaxing will affect them. 

What keeps those born in August from isolating everyone with their argumentative spirit is their big, generous heart. Those born in August are one of the most loving and affectionate birth months, and when they see their loved ones hurting, they genuinely feel sorry. Even though they won’t change their stance, they will apologize for upsetting someone they care about in a fight. They will try to find a compromise they can live with, as long as it doesn’t hurt their ego, to make others happy.

September

It’s impossible to beat those born in September in an argument because this birth month is too clever to lose. As an earth sign, those born in September are practical, logical, and analytical. They can compartmentalize their feelings and stick to the facts. Emotional appeals won’t work on this sign, so no amount of tears or yelling will move them. Arguments are black and white to them; when they’re right, they’re right, and nothing can change their reality.

September natives are guided by Mercury, the planet of intellect and communication. Thanks to Mercury, those born in September are very smart and have excellent research skills. They also defend themselves eloquently in a debate. They’re the ones who come to an argument prepared with screenshots and statistics. Instead of sharing their thoughts and feelings, they rely on cold, hard data.

But, as a mutable sign, those born in September aren’t argumentative by nature. They are patient and willing to hear the other side with an open mind. However, if the argument is not supported by verifiable information, those born in September can easily dismiss it. The thing about this birth month is, it’s tough to win an argument against them because they really are usually right. They don’t fight for sport; they fight because they know the truth and will continuously defend it.

November

You can just give up now if you are thinking of starting an argument with someone born in November. You will never, ever win. This is partly because of November’s guiding planets – this zodiac is one of the few signs with two ruling celestial bodies. It is primarily ruled by Pluto, the planet of power and intensity, and secondarily led by Mars, the planet of conflict and aggression. For those born in November, arguments are all about power, and admitting defeat is a loss of control. And, with Mars on their side, they are competitive, skilled fighters who never back down from a challenge. Although they are usually calm and collected, sometimes their Mars side flares up, causing them to pick fights and lose their cool.

As a fixed sign, those born in November are stubborn and set in their ways. There is no changing their minds, no matter how many logical arguments you make. If they don’t have a counter-argument, they will just say your stance goes against their beliefs or doesn’t make sense to them. Povember-born individuals are emotional and sensitive creatures, so logic and facts aren’t enough to persuade them.

You will also never get an apology from someone born in November if a disagreement goes too far. They will never admit they were wrong, and in fact are likely to seek revenge if they feel like you’ve wronged them in the argument. But those born in November care about other people’s feelings and never want to hurt their closest loved ones. They are exceptionally loyal, so even though they won’t admit defeat, they will try to make it up to you if they upset you in a fight.