4 Zodiacs Who Are Learning To Ask For Help This Month

SAGITTARIUS

Asking for help blows your cover, Sagittarius. Being completely worry and care-free depends on having no problems to fix. You are so concerned about troubling others that you choose to hide your struggles from the world, but that doesn’t mean you’re able to be completely in denial about them yourself. Save yourself the headache and take a chance on the people you trust most. You will be surprised to see how they don’t even think twice about getting involved and providing a lending hand. When you access the resources and relationships at your disposal, you’re ultimately doing a better job at taking care of yourself than when you try and force something all on your own. There’s no shame in admitting some tasks require an extra set of hands.

VIRGO

Part of asking for help is admitting you have a problem in the first place, and heaven knows that is a painful process for you, Virgo. You’ve lived so long in your perfectionist facade, it’s made method-acting your coping mechanism. But try as you might to deny your inner-self, it will always be there waiting for you to address it’s urgent needs. It’s telling you it needs help, and if you learn to respond to its calls, you will recognize the necessity of leaning on others in turn. The only way we learn is when others teach us, and we cannot dress the wounds we can’t reach ourselves. Once you make peace with your own physical and mental limitations, asking for help becomes the only logical solution, and logic you can get behind.

AQUARIUS

It’s hard for you to ask for help when you’re so focused on solving everyone’s problems. You feel like turning that attention inward is selfish or neglectful, but neglecting yourself actually ends up hurting everyone in the long run. You have no trouble mobilizing the troops when it comes to the causes you support, so it’s time to learn to delegate your own personal needs as well. You shouldn’t balk at asking friends and family to reciprocate favors you’ve done for them a million times. Getting a ride to the doctor, dog-sitting, or moving day are all just common moments where our community can be there for us. You’re not asking anyone to sacrifice their first born, so stop acting like you are.

CANCER

You’ve lulled yourself into a false sense of security, Cancer. Convinced yourself you’re fine when you’ve been hanging by a thread for as long as you remember. Familiarity with chaos isn’t the same thing as stability, and it’s okay to come to terms with the fact that you need help to pull yourself out of the disarray. You should never have gone this long without tending to your own needs, and you deserve to feel and look your best as often as possible. You have to stop treating it like a luxury or something that should only happen once in a while. Raise your damn hand, pick up the phone, let people know what you need. Once you see how quick these fixes can be, you’ll be embarrassed you let it go so long.