5 Green Flags You’re Marrying Your Goddamn Soulmate

Here are five green flags you’re marrying your goddamn soulmate.

1. You’re writing your own vows.

Because no one else could possibly tell your love story the way you both could. And besides, you wouldn’t want them to anyway. You want to express your devotion and adoration of one another in your own words.

2. You’ve grown in positive ways during your relationship.

Throughout your partnership, you’ve not only grown closer but you’ve grown individually in positive ways as well. This is because you encourage each other to become the best versions of yourselves. You inspire each other to do better and be better.

3. Your family and friends were absolutely thrilled when you got engaged.

There has been no outside concern about your partnership. In fact, everyone was totally psyched when you announced your engagement. Everyone who knows you both best can see what a good match you are for one another.

4. Planning your wedding has been, for the most part, pretty relaxed.

Planning a wedding can be stressful given all the moving pieces and details to figure out. And while you’ve definitely felt a little overwhelmed with the logistics of it all, the planning process has been pretty smooth. It’s honestly felt more exciting than anything because you know it’s a celebration of your love. And you only are going to need to do it once. They’re the one.

5. When you think about your upcoming wedding day, you feel calm.

After all, it’ll feel like you’re finally coming home. You are each other’s safe places and you can’t imagine spending the rest of your life with anyone else.