5 Things He’ll Do If He’s Only Interested In Hooking Up (And Nothing More)

Here are five things he’ll do if he’s only interested in hooking up (and nothing more).

1. He’ll say things like, “Let’s just go with the flow” when you try and bring up commitment.

Or, “I like you a lot, I’m just not ready for a relationship right now.” Someone who actually likes you and sees you as having relationship potential will give you a definitive direction as to what they’re looking for and whether that aligns with how they feel about you.

2. He won’t introduce you to his friends.

In fact, you aren’t entirely sure his friends know you exist (and something deep down tells you that they don’t).

3. He’ll be inconsistent.

Mixed signals seem like the only language he knows how to speak. You will rarely get a straight answer from him or know what version of him you’re going to get at a given moment.

4. He avoids discussing the future at all costs.

And not because he’s trying to be ✨ in the moment with you ✨ and focused on the present. It’s because he doesn’t see you as someone in his life long-term. In other words, temporary. Someone who wants you in their life will talk about future plans. Someone who doesn’t will avoid any discussion of the future at all.

5. He doesn’t nurture emotional closeness.

Everything is only about sex and fooling around. In fact, he won’t even bother seeing you if there isn’t a chance you two can hook up. Everything is information and if he’s showing that hooking up is all he’s really interested in, take this as truth.