5 Zodiacs Who Armor Their Hearts Against Love

We all want love – it’s one of the few universal human experiences to desire a sense of belonging, safety, and feeling cherished.

But no matter how much we want it, sometimes we get in our own way. Certain zodiacs build walls around their hearts so high, it’s almost impossible for anyone to break through. Here are the five star signs who armor themselves against love, and how astrology explains their inaccessible hearts.

Aries

Aries people are fiery and passionate, so they love being in love – but they mostly enjoy the early stages of relationships, and have a hard time turning the initial spark into a long-lasting flame. One of the biggest barriers around Aries’ hearts is their fighting spirit. Ruled by Mars, the “warrior planet,” Aries natives are naturally combative and aggressive. They NEVER back down from a fight, and they start little arguments because they actually enjoy debating – and winning. Besides the challenge of making relationships go the distance, Aries people can’t let themselves lose an argument or stop picking fights. This greatly hinders their ability to find true love, and they need to put the sword down and look for meaningful connections instead of short-lived passion if they want to find a soulmate.

Cancer

Oh, Cancers… all they want is to be loved, but the sign of the crab can’t help but hide behind their tough outer shell. Although they may at first appear tough and gruff, they’re actually sweet little cinnamon rolls on the inside. The reason they’re so guarded is that they’re afraid of getting hurt – as a water sign, they’re sensitive and emotional, and they know it. They don’t want to let someone into their heart, just to have it broken. They need someone with the patience, understanding, and determination to break down their walls and give them the level of devotion and commitment they crave. Although Cancers have a hard time letting people in, once someone earns their love and trust, they’re in their armored hearts for life. 

Virgo

Virgos have two special ways of armoring their hearts against love: setting impossible standards, and trying to “fix” their partners. Virgos are notoriously picky and meticulous – they don’t like the messiness, unpredictability, and lack of control that comes with romantic relationships. If someone doesn’t fit their checklist to a T, they lose all interest. On the other hand, sometimes Virgos make exceptions and couple up with someone who doesn’t fit their criteria – with the intention of “fixing” them or turning them into the perfect partner Virgos wants them to be. But it’s impossible to change someone else, especially if they don’t want to change – and it can be very hurtful to date someone who only likes you for your potential, not who you are. 

Capricorn

Capricorns are complicated, and many of them end up finding love later in life because they are so resistant to it. As an earth sign, Capricorns are logical and practical, so they tend to follow their heads instead of their hearts. Although they actually feel very deeply, Capricorns have a hard time getting in touch with their emotions, and an even harder time expressing how they feel. They want to let someone special in, they just don’t know how to do it – it doesn’t come naturally to them at all. Plus, their goals and ambitions tend to take priority over finding love. They’re also fiercely independent and don’t want to appear as if they NEED anyone else. It takes a lot to break through the armor around a Capricorn’s heart, but when it happens, this serious zodiac sign will be devoted for life. 

Aquarius

Aquarians aren’t particularly concerned with finding love, so they’re not especially motivated to break down the walls they have around their hearts. Thanks to their ruling planet Uranus, Aquarians are naturally rebellious and contrary – they want what they can’t have, so the second someone shows romantic interest, they run away. They also dislike conventions, so they avoid traditional relationship milestones like marriage, or even the typical commitments. They’re very independent and value their freedom, and they won’t give that up for just anyone. It’s a true challenge for them to find someone who meets their very specific needs: someone who makes them feel secure and understood, while still keeping them intrigued and excited – oh, and also gives them plenty of space.