6 Dealbreakers That Will Scare Away An Aries

You can’t handle hard conversations.

Aries aren’t going to sugarcoat their complaints. If they’re unhappy with you, then they’re going to let you know. They are going to be honest with you because they don’t see the point in playing pretend. When you’re dating an Aries, you need to be able to take constructive criticism without falling apart. If an Aries feels like they need to tiptoe around you, then they aren’t going to last in a relationship with you. They are way too blunt about their emotions.

You need to stick to a strict routine.

Aries are spontaneous. They don’t want to have every single moment of their life planned out in advance. They want to go with the flow and see where life takes them. They want to go on fun, wild adventures whenever the mood strikes. Aries aren’t going to stay with you if you’re too rigid, if you don’t say yes to new opportunities, if you end up holding them back. They need a partner who is willing to try new things, who is their partner in crime.

You need every second of their time.

Aries are go-getters. They have big dreams for themselves, which means they’re going to be spending a lot of time grinding. They aren’t going to sacrifice their career dreams for a relationship. They would rather split their time between work and dating. If you expect them to make you the center of their universe, then the relationship isn’t going to work. Aries need a partner who supports their goals, even if that means that you’re going to spend a little less time together while they put in the work.  

You tell little white lies.

Aries are brutally honest, and they expect their partners to behave in the same way. They have a temper, so if they catch their partner in a lie, the situation isn’t going to end well. Aries aren’t afraid of conflict, so if you wrong them, they are going to call you out. They aren’t going to let you get away with it. They need a partner who keeps it real with them because they are going to do the same.

You are indifferent about most things.

Aries are one of the most passionate signs in the zodiac – and they love when others are passionate, too. They don’t want to date someone who feels bleh about everything. Someone who couldn’t care less about the relationship or their career or the world at large. They want someone with strong opinions. Someone who gets excited about the little things in life. Someone with as much energy and passion as they have in their heart.

You need time to decide whether you really want to date them.

Aries are impulsive and impatient. They aren’t great at sitting around and waiting. If you aren’t sure about whether you want to be with them, they probably won’t wait for you to make a decision. They’re probably going to move on. Aries don’t want to feel like they’re wasting their time. They want to make every second count.