7 Texts Your Girlfriend Secretly Wants You To Send Her

Texts checking in on her.

If she’s told you about a huge test coming up or a problem at work, then text her at some point throughout the day to ask her how she’s holding up. Reminder that you’re there for her if she needs to rant. It will show her that you actually listen when she’s speaking, that you remember the things that she tells you, and that you genuinely care about her. It’s a small gesture that will make it clear how invested you are in your relationship with her.

Good morning texts.

Send her a good morning message to let her know she’s the first thing on your mind when you wake up in the morning. This will start her day off with a smile – and it will make her think of you, too. No one wants to be the person who you text in the middle of the night when you’re wasted and lonely. They want to be the person who you’re so excited to talk to that you can’t wait another moment.  

Texts about the things that remind you of her.

When you see something that reminds you of her, send her a quick text. It doesn’t matter if it’s a song that you’ve heard on the radio, a meme that’s been going around on the internet, or a fact about a TV show you both watch. If it made you think of her, then tell her. It’s a sweet way to compliment her and connect with her at the same time.  

Texts about your day.

There’s nothing worse than a one-sided conversation. If you’re always drilling her with questions and never contribute with details about your own day, then she’s going to get bored. You need to tell her about what’s been going on with you. Don’t be too mysterious or she’ll feel like she doesn’t know you at all. Instead of answering with “nothing much” when she asks how you’ve been doing, tell her something. Anything. It’s better than silence, which forces her to carry the whole conversation.

Texts reminding her how much you care.

Don’t let your actions speak for themselves. Back up those actions with the words that she wants to hear. Tell her that you miss her. Tell her that you love her. Tell her that you’ve been thinking of her and can’t wait to see her again. Don’t be afraid to speak from the heart because those are the texts she’s most likely to screenshot and save forever.

Texts setting plans.

Take initiative in your relationship. Don’t expect her to do all the work and come up with a million different date ideas. Find a restaurant or an event you think she’d love and invite her there. Set up the date, so that she doesn’t have to do anything except show up, sit back, and relax.

Texts complimenting her.

Everyone wants to be wanted, and your girlfriend is no exception. Tell her how beautiful she looks in her latest Instagram pic or how hard she makes you laugh after she tells you a joke. Don’t hold back the flattery. Speak from the heart.