17 Things That Secretly Suck About Being Beautiful
Being pretty isnโt always easy. There are downsides to people thinking youโre the most gorgeous person in the room. Here are some things that suck about being perceived as beautiful by others:
โWhen people who are your friends take every chance they can to criticize your appearance or anything else, whatever little crumb of shade they can use to humble you.โ โ Soclothesminded
โPeople think you are flirting if you are being anything other than nasty to them. Then if you are nasty, you are a bitch/asshole. No in-between.โ โ SpikedBubbles
โNot knowing if youโre actually funny. Or well spoken. Or talented. Or charismatic.โ โ stink3rbelle
โIf youโre really attractive and also quiet, people think youโre snobby.โ โ Appropriate_Day_8721
โFriendships falling apart when their partner is attracted to you.โ โ Illustrious-Fly9586
โIf you become unattractive for any reason you may find it difficult to reconcile that you are no longer attractive. Examples: car wreck, injury, aging, disease. Iโm sure there are more. But if youโre used to being attractive and you identify as such (consciously or subconsciously) it can be really hard to come to terms with a change in that.โ โ goldensnooch
โAll the older men at bars think youโre into themโฆ. but really youโre just being polite.โ โ1enthusiasticllama
โI think some people would get obsessed with you to the point theyโll harm other people (or themselves) to just get your attention.โ โ Independent_Mall_78
โItโs often assumed youโre just a pretty girl with zero problems.โ โ Whole_Swing_611
โI was told Iโm not the type of a girl someone dates because theyโve been with too many other guys. When I was a virgin. Another guy tried to hook up with me kept calling me beautiful. I kept saying no, Iโm only looking for a long term relationship. He said something like, โWhat a waste, youโre made for sex,โ saying it like a compliment??? His tone was flirtyโฆ idfk but Iโll never forget that. Itโs hard to find someone to want more than to fuck me as some trophy girl.โ โ Dropoffs
โNo one takes you seriously. If you get promoted at work or get put in charge of a project, others will think you got it just because of your looks.โ โ oliviacooke
โMen get very nervous around me, which in turn makes me nervous. My interactions with a lot of men in general is pretty negative.โ โ Whole_Swing_611
โStalkers. Men and women touching you for no reason, including hair and face. People thinking you have nothing to offer but your looks. Being called a whore, slut etc.โ โ lonelyempath__
โYou arenโt taken seriously.โ โ Whole_Swing_611
โPeople seem to think being attracted to a beautiful person entitles them to make ridiculous demands on that personโs time, attention, and body. Itโs wrong to covet a human being in that way.โ โ SquilliamFancySon95
โJudgment from others. Jealousy from others. Stereotypes of being dumb, mean, etc. Not being able to trust other peopleโs intentions with you. Etc.โ โ razzledazzle626
โYou get snide comments from other women.โ โ Whole_Swing_611
