10 Unique Red Flags You Should Have On Your Radar
Make sure youโre careful when dating. You donโt want to end up with the wrong person. Here are some red flags that you might not have considered before but you should start looking out for in the future:
โI look at, and tell my friends and younger family members to look at, how does that person laugh? What do they laugh at? How often do they laugh at something? I knew someone who was finnneeeee but would only ever laugh at people who got hurt or embarrassed (Like tripping in front of people). Nope nope nope.โ โ ValBravora048
โSomeone that can only have fun if it includes alcohol. I donโt care if people want to drink, but do you have to be drunk on a camping trip? Didnโt you get drunk watching Netflix at home? Or at the club? If someone wants to meet and their only idea of a social setting is going to have a few drinks, whatโs the point? I drink to get fucked up because I have nothing to do, I donโt drink to enhance the shit Iโd do regularly or already enjoy. Maybe Iโm fucking boring, I donโt know, but if your life revolves around alcohol like my exโs life then nah, not for me.โ โ Anthonywantsnoosnoo
โExcessive social media use. I donโt want to do stuff just so we can take pictures. I want to do shit to do shit.โ โ Preference-Economy
โHow do they react to slow Wi-Fi, not feeling well, bad service in a restaurant, a bad flight, or bad traffic? How do they react to someone disagreeing with them just to be a dick? Are they rude to hotel employees when itโs really late? Are they nice to airport employees during delayed flights? Are they nice to nurses and/or lab technicians during bad or stressful doctor appointments/ER visits? Their reactions to these adverse situations are EXTREMELY telling about their true self.โ โ toss_it_out12345678
โA very minor one but do they leave their phone volume on when they scroll/text during a movie or show you are watching? If so, they can piss off cause theyโre going to be unaware of how annoying they will be at any given time.โ โ [deleted]
โPlanning a vacation tells you a lot about how well you work as a team, how they react to stress and uncertainty, how well they respect foreigners and other cultures, how well they share spaces (sharing a room is a preview to what living with them is like).โ โ curiouspigeon92
โInterrupting me. Have the decency to let me finish my sentence. I promise I will reciprocate.โ โ GearJunkie82
โPlaying a board game can tell you a lot about a person. I donโt mean if they are deceitful in a game, they are in real life. I mean, do they engage with the game? How well do they seem to understand the game? If youโre paying attention you can quickly find out how outgoing, playful, intelligent, serious, etc. they are.โ โ Teach-o-tron
โIf they joke about jealousy itโs normally a clear sign where itโs headed long term.โ โ [deleted]
โHaving opinions about everything, and knowledge of nothing.โ โ [deleted]
