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The Reason Why You’re Misunderstood (Based On Your Birth Month)
January
While youβre a great natural leader, youβd like it if someone offered to take the lead sometimes. Itβs not that youβll necessarily want to relinquish control, but the lack of offers for help can make you feel like youβre the only one who caresβand thatβs no good.
February
While youβre a caring partner and friend, there is a limit to what youβll put up with. Sometimes it feels like people assume they can do or say anything and youβll stay with them. But, just like anyone else, you have a definite breaking point.
March
Just because you keep your feelings to yourself doesnβt mean you donβt have any feelings at all. Youβre not always sharing how you feel, so friends and family might assume you have no opinion at all. Worse still, they might think youβre cold. Youβre notβyouβre just careful.
April
Just because you act quickly and make decisions easily doesnβt mean that youβre reckless. While others hem and haw, youβre there to steer everyone to a decision. Indecisive people will assume that youβre not actually thinking before you act, but thatβs not true. Youβre just great at thinking on your feet.
May
While youβre good at making friends easily, that doesnβt mean you donβt care for your best friends any less. Ultimately, youβll do anything for only a select few. If someone ends up in your inner circle, theyβre set for life. Everyone else are just a bonus.
June
While youβre great at reading the room, that doesnβt mean youβre judging everyone. Your empathy skills are through the roof, and even the tiniest mood shift wonβt go unnoticed. The problem comes when people think youβre judging them by addressing the energy. You arenβt nearly as judgmental as they think.
July
Just because youβre sensitive, that doesnβt mean people should tiptoe around you. The idea that people might be avoiding saying things to you to spare your feelings makes you uncomfy. Even if you have an emotional reaction, thereβs nothing wrong with feeling something, right?
August
Youβre an incredibly loyal person, but that doesnβt mean youβll say yes to anything. People like to ask for favors for everything from helping move during a blizzard to lending them hundreds of dollars they never intend to pay back. You arenβt the easy mark people might think you are.
September
While you might say something isnβt a big deal or that youβre going with the flow, youβre actively overanalyzing every little thing. You try to hide that anxiety and self-censorship, but your true inner circle knows that youβre actually second-guessing every text and interaction.
October
Although youβre pretty lucky, that doesnβt mean you donβt work hard. Sure, it looks like good things just happen for you, but youβre doing your part by working hard and making it happen. Things arenβt as easy as they seem.
November
Just because youβre calm and smiling doesnβt mean youβre not seething on the inside. While you feel most other emotions freely and with abandon, thatβs not the case when youβre mad. You keep your anger held tight and out of the public eye, which may not be the best for you, but itβs who you are.
December
Just because you donβt like to follow rules and regulations doesnβt mean you are unreliable. While you find authority stifling, youβre still a responsible person and are great and getting stuff done. Anyone who thinks youβre a delinquent is sorely mistaken.