If You Want Success In Both Love And Life, You Need To Start Doing These 7 Things

This is our time. We are making moves and taking names. We are redefining success on our own terms and crushing the status quo. From financial freedom to location freedom, we are designing glorious and meaningful lifestyles. 

So why do so many successful women often find themselves flying solo? Well, for those who choose to do so, that’s a boss move, period. But what about the boss babes that genuinely seek romance but can’t seem to find their match? 

What about love?

Listen, babe. If this is you, you don’t want love—you want a partnership. 

Not that love isn’t a part of the equation, but love isn’t enough. Not with where you’re going.  

You are brilliant and beautiful, and those worthy of having your time and attention will show themselves to you through persistence and consistency. They will be secure and complete themselves.

In this ludicrous age of dating, some old-fashioned ideals have come back in style. It’s time to level up your strategy. You are the CEO of your life. A quick guide to keep in mind:

Keep your standards high. When you lower your standards, people will do their best to crawl under them. Make a list of non-negotiables and stick to them.

Date partnership material. A secure partnership will enhance what you’ve already built. Does your potential partner exhibit excellence in their own right? Do they have a growth mindset and admirable habits?

Own your luminosity. You will not have to walk around with a lampshade on your head with a healthy partner. Instead, a partnership will provide a safe place that will allow you to shine even brighter. 

Get receipts. Good intentions never created anything on their own. Don’t fall into the trap of someone’s potential. 

Do your own work. You can’t expect someone to do something you’re unwilling to do. Reflect what you seek.

Be willing to walk away. Listen to the small inner voice. If something is not working, let it go.

Keep moving forward. The path may be winding and unclear, but don’t return to something you’ve left behind. It’s time to level up.