The Brutal Truth Each Zodiac Needs To Hear About Their Ex To Move On

ARIES: They were never going to commit. 

Your ex isn’t “the one who got away.” You only feel that way because you have a desire for things not within your reach. You have become fixated. Usually you’re the one being chased, but it was the opposite with them. They colored your world in adventure and excitement but had issues committing to anything serious. You let a lot of mistreatment slide to make it work because you hate “losing.” They never had any intention of getting their lives (or your relationship) on track. You’re too charismatic and powerful for someone who doesn’t put in the work. 

TAURUS: You were manipulated by them from the beginning. 

Taurus, they were never who you fell for. You were reeled in from the start. Your ex saw your soft, vulnerable side and learned how to emotionally manipulate you. They made you feel special, but only ever through words. Their actions constantly proved otherwise. All those second chances you gave came back to stab you in the heart. You sacrificed things you shouldn’t have for the relationship and they let you. All along, they never planned to get as invested. What you had wasn’t real. It would serve you well to remember that a Bull isn’t someone to be played with or controlled. 

GEMINI: Once a cheater, always a cheater. 

There’s nothing more than you hate than being tied down. It was all fun and games at first. What was only supposed to be a fling turned into something more long-term. Your ex was like every lover before, down to the same mindset. You only wanted something fleeting with them at the beginning for a reason—they’re unreliable. They cheated on you because they aren’t emotionally available or mature enough to invest in a relationship. You stuck it out with a player. The good news is that you don’t really miss them, you’re just mad that you didn’t get to hurt them as deeply as they hurt you. 

CANCER: Your ex is an emotional vampire. 

You spent more time feeling upset in the relationship than you spent feeling happy. Your ex drained you of all your emotional resources. All they ever did was take from you—your time, your heart, your trust, your vulnerability, and even your dignity. They never gave you anything in return. The relationship was completely one-sided. Your willingness to compromise was exploited by someone extremely selfish. You bent yourself in ways you can’t forgive yourself for just so that they could happily take from you. You have a lot to give inside that heart of gold. They were never going to deserve any of it. 

LEO: They would have only ever offered you half a heart. 

The relationship was always a lost cause. Your ex just wanted you to be arm candy. Initially, you were attracted to them because they stroked your ego and showered you with attention. If you’re honest with yourself, you can admit that their grandiose gestures lacked any thought and affection. The high that they provided clouded your judgment. Underneath it all was a pretentious person who couldn’t reciprocate emotionally. They wanted you to take a backseat to them in the relationship. When you didn’t want to give up control, they found ways to make you feel less than. You deserve someone whose heart burns as hot and bright as yours.

VIRGO: You need a partner, not a child.

Your ex saw your incredible work ethic and let you take on all the responsibilities in the relationship. You took on all the emotional (and maybe even financial) heavy lifting. You did all the planning, compromising, apologizing, and forgiving. You even took on duties and burdens that weren’t yours to bear. You cleaned up after them, reminded them about their appointments, and managed them so that they would get their lives together. You sacrificed your own wants and needs to take care of someone who didn’t want to grow up. Deep down, you know you’re so much better off. 

LIBRA: They gaslit you in the relationship.  

You looked for stability in someone who wasn’t worthwhile. Your ex couldn’t provide you with the emotional security you needed. Somehow they always found a way to blame you instead of ever taking accountability. They never did what they said they would. With words, they’d claim to care, but would let you down constantly. Instead of apologizing, they preyed on your insecurities. You’d rationalize away their mistakes and bad behavior. Somewhere inside, you can now see them for who they actually are—someone toxic. You think you miss them right now only because you don’t know what to do with yourself now that you’re alone. You’ll find harmony in the single life again—you’ll see. 

SCORPIO: Your ex was never going to make you feel understood. 

It was never love, and you know it. You’re obsessed with someone who isn’t good for you. During your time together, you felt an emptiness inside. You felt alone even lying next to them at night. This is because they couldn’t match your emotional depth. You’re an intense creature with many complexities. It takes someone special to make you feel safe opening up. It takes someone even more special to make you feel seen. Your ex was never going to fulfill you. There was strong physical chemistry between you two, but you felt devoid of passion. They always made you feel like you wanted “too much” because deep down they knew they were too little. 

SAGITTARIUS: They knew what they were doing each time they hurt you. 

For the first time in a while (or ever), you wanted to settle down into something stable with someone. Unfortunately, you picked the wrong person. You respected their independence and freedom, but they took advantage of your trust. You’re extremely forgiving, so you stuck around in hopes that they’d change their ways. You did everything you could to make them happy, but nothing kept them from disappointing you. They cared more about their selfish pursuits than making your relationship endgame. You deserve someone who won’t hurt you or make you forget your sparkle. 

CAPRICORN: You were never a priority to them. 

Your ex only got your attention because they checked off all your boxes. They looked good on paper, but they weren’t someone you could form a genuine and meaningful connection with. Their goals and career were always more important than the relationship and than your own ambitions. Time and time again, they failed to support you like you supported them. They were indifferent about your future together. It’s not that they never saw one with you, it’s just that they were never afraid of one without you. Love doesn’t take precedence in their life. You deserve to build a life with someone who treats you like you’re in an equal relationship.

AQUARIUS: You were just a pit stop along the way. 

You’re able to control what you show others. With your ex, you didn’t hold back. You saw the bigger picture—a future together. You let your guard fall because you felt an authentic connection, but they only used you for the thrill. You excited them and opened them up to new experiences and fresh mindsets. You solved all their problems. They repaid you with draining you of your emotional energy and creativity. They took advantage of your vulnerability, treating you like a motel room on the way to their final destination. You’re not disposable. Life was such a drag with them, Aquarius. Remember what it was like to soak up the world around you before they came barreling in? 

PISCES: They loved what you did for them more than they loved you as a person. 

You have this unique ability of reminding people of their beauty and value. Around you, anyone can feel a sense of belonging in this world. This unfortunately can attract soul suckers like your ex—insecure people who only keep you around because you make them feel good about themselves. You made them feel special, wanted, and needed. They put you down because they knew they needed you more. It stroked their ego to have someone as deep and rare as you fall for them. You fulfilled all their needs and they neglected to even understand yours. Your pure heart still wants to see the best in them, but it doesn’t exist—it never did.