These Birth Months Are The Most Likely To Stray
Attraction is rarely as simple as “right person, right time,” especially when attention, validation, and emotional curiosity are all competing at once. Research in relationship psychology suggests that people are more likely to “stray” or emotionally drift when they experience unmet needs around novelty, identity expression, or emotional depth within a relationship. Studies also show that perceived abundance of options and difficulty with long-term emotional satisfaction can increase comparison behaviors and restlessness in love. Keep reading to see if your birth month made the list and discover what might influence the way you handle temptation and commitment.
November
People think November strays because they get bored with their partners, but what they really tire of is keeping up an act. It’s an exhausting production to seduce the way they do. To entice by creating this mysterious persona that everyone is just dying to unravel. But one can only keep that many secrets for so long. The more time they spend with someone, the more they are able to piece together, and November worries that the familiar realities of their true personality will lack the luster of the allure they created. Those born in November would rather find someone more ignorant to impress than to bare their soul with the person they’ve already spent significant time with. They’re just not ready to really go that deep and let someone see how they look like first thing in the morning or where they keep their retainer.
March
Those born in March stray because they keep dreaming up someone better in their imagination, or lusting over fictional characters. They can’t deal with people who stumble over their improvised words instead of deliver perfectly phrased monologues. They crave the drama of a romance over the stability of real life. Because they are so used to looking at life through the highs and lows of a structured plot line, they think that same push and pull is how you gauge a significant connection. But sometimes when things are just that good there is no conflict. No villain. No misunderstanding to overcome. Sometimes there is no lovers to enemies arc, and just a series of decent dates that blossom into a meaningful relationship. But when those born in March don’t feel like things are spicy enough, they let their eye start to wander.
June
Those born in June stray because they pick partners who aren’t fully compatible with their multifaceted personalities. They hide or compact certain aspects of who they are in order to fit into a category of their own choosing, and seek out a partner who also fits neatly into the same box. But slowly and surely they feel something is missing. What they don’t realize is that it’s not just missing from the relationship; they are repressing it within themselves. Until those born in June can make peace with these seemingly competitive aspects of themselves, they won’t start seeking out the people who really complement their energy and meet their needs. The wild side and the side that plays by the rules. That mix of left brain and right brain that loves excel and broadway musicals. Your soulmate is out there, you just need to tap into your soul to find them.
August
Those born in August stray because they have so many amazing options to choose from. Imagine your top five celebrity “hall passes”. What would you do if they were all interested in a relationship with you? That’s the kind of demand that those born in August generate. It’s not a slight to any one person that those born in August can’t make up their mind, it’s a compliment to all of the great qualities in the people pursuing them at once. Those born in August are the consummate Bachelor and Bachelorette from TV. Sometimes it all gets to their head, and they have to set their ego on the back burner. Ultimately they have to find a way to give one person a chance at a time, with their full attention and consideration, if they are looking for long term monogamy. Eventually they will mature and find their way.