Polina Tankilevitch

This Is Why She Moves On Faster Than You Think

She moves on faster than you think because she’s been there before. She knows how this will end. She knows that it starts with inconsistency and mixed signals. She knows that it starts with words not matching actions. She knows that it starts with her doubting if this is all in her head or if it’s real. She knows that when she has to keep guessing what you want then it’s the beginning of the end.

She moves on faster than you think because you weren’t going to give her what she wanted and you weren’t going to give her the love or the reassurance she needed. She moves on fast because she knows that if you really wanted her, she would know for sure.  

She moves on faster than you think because she finally knows what she wants and she’s not willing to settle for anything less than that. She knows the kind of person she wants to be with and the kind of love she needs. She knows that she’s over the games, the confusion, the slow replies and the breadcrumbs. She knows that when it’s real and when it’s mutual, it will just happen naturally. She won’t have to fight for your attention or your time. She moves on faster than you think because you weren’t serious about her. 

She moves on faster than you think because she wants to be the only one and you were so busy exploring all your options. She moves on fast because she’s not going to keep investing in someone who’s not investing in her. She knows that you had a choice, she knows that if you wanted to see her or talk to her or spend more time with her you would have done something about it. She knows the difference between someone who genuinely likes her and someone who is casually interested in her. 

She moves on faster than you think because she learned not to engage in games with people like you. She knows better now. She knows that no matter how good she is at the game, she’ll eventually lose because you are not ready for someone like her and you are not ready for the kind of commitment she’s looking for. She knows you’re not afraid of losing her. She knows that if she keeps trying with you, you will only take her for granted and she knows that she will lose herself trying to win you over. 

She moves on faster than you think because she’s no longer trying to win someone over or fight for their attention. She knows that if she doesn’t feel valued, respected and prioritized then there’s no room for her in your life. She moves on faster than you think because she finally learned how to choose herself instead of waiting for you to choose her. She finally learned that moving on is always better than accepting so much less than what she wants and deserves.