What Makes A Man 10x Hotter, According To Women

“Knowing his self worth. This isn’t to be confused with being cocky. I mean someone who can recognize when a person, place, or thing isn’t for him anymore, silently removes himself and can confidently articulate his reasoning when challenged. Boundaries are sexy… to me anyway.” — InhalingBacon

“When he attempts to try things that you like. It is even more attractive if he then does those things with you and genuinely enjoys it!” — Outside_Gur2649

“The ability to communicate well, emotionally and intellectually. Being considerate and empathetic. Automatically makes any man 100x hotter.” — bossbarista22

“When you can tell he’s not self-centered. When out in public, he can see the people around him and is considerate. I think that’s just basic decent respect and being aware of your surroundings because I’m the same way but it’s so rare.” — justblippingby

“How bright you are. Doesn’t necessarily have to be smarts, but whether you’re passionate about something and active. Blandness and docility are not attractive. You need a sense of purpose.” — Whathadhapenedwas

“What makes a man attractive for five seconds? Abs and a broad smile. Attractive for slightly longer? A good joke or an actual compliment. Attractive, like boyfriend material? Being genuinely interested in my hobbies and knowing how to explain your own without making me feel stupid.” — Aggressive_Tear_769

“Effort. While it might not make you attractive in the literal sense, there is little that is less attractive than a person who stinks and wears ill-fitting, ill-maintained clothing. Wash yourselves, dress yourselves like you care what you look like, and you will instantly look far more attractive than you would otherwise.” — EclecticDreck

“How you make them feel. Women will pick up on your character. Is he possessive or is he protective? Patient and kind or quick to anger? Is he honest? Nurturing (yes, nurturing. That’s part of the reason men with healthy and well behaved dogs are approached more)? How does he respond to setbacks and to being disagreed with? Women want to know if they’ll be safe and loved in a relationship and will try to figure you out before they get involved.” — Whathadhapenedwas

“When they’re explaining a passion of theirs or something they’re really interested in, but like genuinely, in a not showing off or know-it-all type of way.” — Lynnizian

“Self-confidence. I learned recently that ‘self-confidence’ is the most misunderstood concept in our era. Self-confidence comes from how much you know yourself, how you accept your limits, and mostly, that you won’t be shaken if others don’t like you. Self-confidence is high when you are truly content and happy with yourself, and you don’t need someone else to make you happy ‘Didn’t she talk to me? Fine, I’m happy anyway, because I can be content with myself anyway.’ But it takes a lot of work, possibly with a therapist, to work on your demons and kill them.” — Joonto

“Being smart. Not faking it and not flaunting it. If he’s like super smart and quiet, I already want to marry him.” — AgentDia