Cat Crawford

What Your Love Life Needs Right Now, According To A Tarot Reader


Your card: 9 of Swords

You’ve been in your head a lot lately. Your internal anxiety and worry may be keeping you from having the truly open and harmonious relationship you deserve. While you’ve erected a wall for your own feelings, that wall’s also keeping people out. Tear it down to get closer with your partner or to invite new people in if you’re currently single.


Your card: 3 of Cups

While you’re a definite homebody, this card is telling you to get out and have that vibrant social life you sometimes resist. If you’re in a relationship, this will help you keep the important friendships you’ve fostered and reduce the chance of codependency. If you’re single, going out with friends is always an easy way to meet someone new, too. The bigger the social group, the better.


Your card: 4 of Cups

You’re getting bored, Gemini. There’s something about your love life that just isn’t doing it for you anymore. Perhaps you’re taking your partner for granted. Maybe it’s time to break up. Or maybe that apathy is the thing keeping you single. Don’t get stuck in your boredom–get out of your head and start making changes you can get excited about.


Your card: Page of Wands

You’re free-spirited, Cancer. You’re currently feeling pretty good about your life in general, but has that translated to your love life? Spend some time fostering the same kind of excitement and creativity in your partnership as you have in the rest of your life. And if you’re single, that enthusiasm and free spirit is going to make you all the more attractive. Own it!


Your card: 7 of Swords

It looks like you’ve been feeling doubts lately–doubts about your relationship status and doubts about yourself. Self-sabotage is incredibly powerful, and you’re in danger of letting it ruin everything. Don’t keep this hidden from your partner. Own up to how you’re feeling so you can solve it together. If you’re single, work on your self-worth so you can attract people who will value you just as much.


Your card: The Magician

You’re really powerful right now, Virgo. It’s time for you to manifest what you want in your love life. If you’re in a relationship, that could be asking for what you want, or making a huge change. (Engagement? Breakup? It’s up to you!) If you’re single, this feels like the right time to be picky. Manifest the partner you’ve been waiting for.


Your card: Temperance

It’s right there in the name: “Temperance.” Be cautious, measured, patient, and purposeful. This isn’t the time to make a life-changing decision about your love life. Just relax. And if your love life currently feels imbalanced–whether you’re in a relationship or not–this is a good moment to stop and think about how you could make it better.


Your card: 4 of Pentacles

Your love life needs stability right now, and you might not be getting it. A relationship in turmoil is the last thing you need. Stop living for the drama and fix the problem (or leave). And if you’re single, look for a caring, nurturing, and stable partner, not the one who doesn’t have his life together.


Your card: The Sun

You’re basking in abundance right now, Sagittarius. Maybe you have a bunch of suitors that you’re trying to choose from. Or you’re just filled with so much love and gratitude for the partner you already have. If this doesn’t resonate with you, it could mean that you need to lead your love life with fun and positivity, rather than sourness and self-doubt. Once you do, good things will follow.


Your card: Queen of Swords

You’re incredibly clear-headed right now. You’re seeing things for how they really are, and that wisdom will guide you if you’re currently at a fork in the road. That could mean setting new boundaries with the one you’re with, or taking a step in a different direction in your relationship. This is also the perfect time to go on first dates if you’re single. Your judgement of character is on point right now.


Your card: Knight of Swords

Your focus, as it often is, is more on other parts of your life than love and relationships right now. That’s totally fair. If you’d rather worry about your career, your hobbies, your friendships, then the cards are saying you should go for it. Not everything has to be about love, Aquarius, and you’re chill with that.


Your card: 7 of Pentacles

I wish I had better news right now, but things aren’t going very well for you. In the short term, things are pretty bleak. So rather than focusing on the current misses when it comes to love and dating, focus on your long-term relationship goals. What do you want? What are your deal breakers? Because while you may not be getting what you want right this instant, you will soon enough.