Why Your Partner Appreciates You, Based On Your Birth Month

January

Your partner appreciates that you always treat them with respect. It doesn’t matter whether you’re frustrated with them or are too drunk to remember the conversation in the morning because you’re always going to treat them the way they deserve. You would never cross a line because you value them too much.

February

Your partner appreciates that you are authentically you. You never play pretend in order to impress them. You never make false promises that you cannot keep. You are unapologetically yourself and they love that about you. It makes them feel comfortable being themselves too.

March

Your partner appreciates that you’re always willing to lend them a helping hand. You never leave them hanging. You never treat them like an inconvenience or a bother. You act like a teammate because you know that you’re in this together. You know that their problems are your problems.

April

Your partner appreciates that you always own up to your actions. You never play pretend or trick them or tell little white lies. When you mess up, you own it. And you try your best to fix it. Your apologies mean the world to them. They show that you’re willing to learn and grow.

May

Your partner appreciates that you’re present. You’re never distracted when you’re supposed to be spending quality time together because your full focus is on them. You give them the respect that they deserve. They never have to ask for attention because you give them plenty of it on your own.

June

Your partner appreciates that you can always make them laugh. No matter how down in the dumps they feel, you’re able to pull them out of their funk. You’re able to make them laugh until there are tears in their eyes. They love that you always know the right words to say to comfort them.

July

Your partner appreciates that you wear your heart on your sleeve. You aren’t afraid to cry in front of them or talk to them about your deepest, darkest feelings. You are vulnerable in every conceivable way because you trust them — and they trust you. You know you have each other’s backs.

August

Your partner appreciates that you’re encouraging. You always support their dreams and push them to chase after what they want. You give them the courage to believe in themselves, to take a real chance on themselves. You remind them that they do have what it takes after all.

September

Your partner appreciates that you’re attentive. You notice whenever something is wrong. You pick up on their body language and small changes to their mood because you know them like the back of your hand. They feel seen with you because you’re clearly paying attention and remembering the little things.

October

Your partner appreciates that you know how to go with the flow. You’re able to adapt to whatever the world throws at you, which helps them adapt as well. They know they can lean on you in an emergency because you have a good head on your shoulders. You are flexible and wise.

November

Your partner appreciates how hardworking you are. You never back down from a challenge. You never half-ass your responsibilities. You are putting in one hundred percent of your effort and it shows. They love that they can always count on you to do the right thing, not the easy thing. You’re mature and dependable and responsible.

December

Your partner appreciates that you’re always honest with them. Even when it might feel awkward, you’re going to tell them exactly how you’re feeling. You’re going to speak from the heart. You would never lie to them, because you believe they deserve the truth and that they can handle it.