Your Emotional Blind Spot In Love (Based On When You Were Born)
We know that love languages allow us to express and receive love, but did you know that Each birth month has very specific taboo love languages that are rarely talked about? Here’s yours.
April
Your love language is dangerous activities – getting to try forbidden things in romance you haven’t tried before with the risk of being caught. Whether it’s getting too physically passionate with your partner in public spaces, having a ménage à trois, or committing petty crimes, you get an adrenaline rush from engaging in anything society might judge and shame you for. Spontaneity and boldness are a recipe for euphoria – and potentially arrest – for you. But hey, it makes for a fun first date.
January
Your love language is winning. You love the rush of being on top. Double points if your partner can beat you in a playful competition, argument, board game, or arm-wrestling contest. You’ll not only be impressed, you’ll be turned on.
December
Your love language is money. You enjoy partners who spoil you and take care of you. A generous partner who can fund your extensive travels, education, and luxury life? You may be naturally independent but that’s sexy. At the same time, you also love being generous with others. Bonus points if they can make you laugh.
May
Sex and food – preferably at the same time. You also get a special thrill from “being generous” in the bedroom and pleasing your partners to the max. Being validated in your sexual prowess is so satisfying.
February
Your love language is space and distance. You enjoy getting people obsessed and focused only on you. It gives you a high to get rid of the competition and get your lovers devoted to you, only to withdraw when they’re invested. Getting space from a partner allows you to miss them and do your own thing, and you actually get addicted to partners who don’t pay you much attention or who seem to have other suitors. Otherwise, you feel smothered and resentful.
September
Your love language is fresh sheets and a clean room. You enjoy watching your partner do the dishes and get down and dirty scrubbing the kitchen floor. Everything sanitized for you? So hot.
June
Your taboo love language is gossip. You love getting together with your loved ones or partner and dishing on the juicy details about a person you both suspected was toxic. The kind of bond you develop when you both hate the same person is titillating for you.
October
Your love language is flirting without fulfilling. You like to tease your partners and talk a big game, only to play the long game of making them wait for whatever you’ve promised. You play the innocent coquette when called out. You want them to earn your affection and commitment.
March
Your love language is being right. Whether it’s persuading your partner to take on your perspective or other people finding out everything you predicted came to light, you get a smug sense of satisfaction from being knowledgeable and intuitive.
November
Your love language is being in control. You love planning everything to the tiniest detail and getting others to follow your plans. It’s a major turn on to be able to dominate everything, whether it be conversations or sex. At the same time, you can also get intoxicated to a partner who is able to make you surrender and be a tad more submissive.
August
Your love language is attention, admiration, and basically being worshipped – but when it’s genuine, it’s even better. You love the validation you get from praise you truly earned but you also get genuine joy out of showing devotion and loyalty to a partner worthy of your adoration.
July
Your love language is sympathy and being taken care of – cuddled, coddled, and pampered. You want people to cater to you and nurse you back from your emotional spells. You also take remarkable pride at gentle parenting your partner in turn.