13 Easily Avoidable Mistakes Men Keep Making With Women
The dating world isn’t easy to navigate. But there are some mistakes that could be easily avoided. Here are the easily avoidable mistakes men keep making with women, according to women:
“The whole disappearing without a single word or explanation (supposedly when they’re either catching feelings, overwhelmed, going through their own issues, have a fear of commitment, and many other reasons). Then, reappearing later as if nothing happened, expecting the woman to just be okay with it.” — Far-Relationship5767
“Having little tantrums when I don’t respond in twenty minutes or an hour. Dude, I have a life, friends, and work that I love. I am not 24/7 available to you.” — lalachichiwon
“Giving generic gifts. Gifts are best when they are thoughtful but not every woman likes jewelry or roses just because it’s the go to. Don’t waste your money on things that aren’t memorable.” — krasavetsa
“Applying your previous relationships to your new relationships. For example, I took it to heart when an ex called me clingy, which lead me to try and ‘play it cool’ in relationships after, where big romantic gestures would have been appreciated, that I would have loved to have done, but didn’t because I thought it would make me look clingy.” — Major_Employer6315
“When you’re with her, be with HER. Don’t be distracted by your phone, television, computer, or video games.” — Ir8Irishman
“Continuing to pursue uninterested women, often by becoming a ‘friend’ of the woman who is always hoping to date her, rather than cutting their losses, and moving on, and finding someone who is interested.” — ThrowawayDewdrop
“Saying yes to everything, same with women. I feel like at the beginning of a relationship, everyone kinda hides who they are and say yes to everything. I’m all for trying new things but don’t lie or be fake about it. “ — rhaizee
“Lack of situational awareness. It doesn’t matter if you’re Brad Pitt or the next Jesus himself, if you harass me for a date when I’m trying to work it’s gonna be a no. If you follow me into the gas station and then camp next to my car so I can’t leave – it’s gonna be a no. These aggressive displays of dominance are the biggest turn-off I’ve ever seen.” — Gossip_Goats
“Treating it as if you have to prove something to her. You need to also see if she’s someone you’re compatible with. It’s a two way street.” — iamtopher1
“Just because you have a sizable member, it doesn’t mean anyone cares or that you know how to use it, or that you even know how to please a woman.” — Vegetable-Tiger-1863
“Paying attention…. Listening to their stories and things they like/dislike… a lot of women I know (me included) are detail oriented, so paying attention to the small things matter. Some men feel that not cheating is enough to be a great partner. Not true. That matters but it doesn’t mean you’re the greatest man on earth. We pay attention to your favorite food or snack, or to your life story and ask questions to get to know you better. It’s like putting pieces to the puzzle together to get to know the other person better. It really makes women feel like you’re listening and you actually care.” — 5_8Cali
“Being afraid of them. They are just people too. So many guys are afraid to approach women. Being nervous happens to everyone but the fear of rejection stopping you from even interacting with a woman you find an attractive will make you miserable.” — JustCallMeRowe
“Trying to look like you have plenty of options. Bragging to me about other women being into you is just gross and does not make us magically more attracted to you at all. I don’t want to compete for your attention just like I’m sure you don’t want to worry about all the people I could have either.” — meantamborine