15 Men Share What Instantly Destroys Their Crush On A Woman

“When they just trauma dump on you relatively quickly after meeting. I get it, and I want to be emotionally available but sometimes its too much too soon.” — Willem_Dafuq

“Overly obsessed with weed. I don’t care if people want to have a smoke to wind down at the end of a workday, but if it’s your only hobby and topic of conversation, it gets boring really fast.” — captainmagictrousers

“The princess attitude in general but most specifically when it comes to finances, don’t get me wrong I want to do/buy nice things for my girlfriend but I hate doing things like that because they are expected of me, I want to do them because I want to do them and make people I care about happy. The second I get ‘you can’t afford me’ vibes I am out. We probably don’t have much in common anyway and I want a partner not an extra expense. Life is hard enough without a constant attitude and headache when they don’t get everything they want.” — tyguy5570

“If they use my gender as a weapon against me. Like, ‘why don’t you act like a man?’ or ‘man up and do it’ or ‘a real man would be able to …’ I have fortunately not experienced this directed at me by a date or girlfriend. But I have heard women say this about other guys. Fuck that. Fuck you for saying that. I’m part of a group that conducts research on the psychology of men and masculinity. I know exactly how far this goes to keeping men trapped in the worst versions of masculinity and masculine behavior. These statements that are aimed at hurting men are just the worst kind of manipulative awful behaviors – and most people don’t even realize how bad it is. But, it’s like I’ve seen too much. I know how much it affects things at a societal level – not to mention how personally insulting it is.” — thesephantomhands

“Unapologetic alcoholism. I can’t hang with a woman who regularly passes out drunk at 9pm and then goes to work at 6am, even if she’s totally functional.” — SomedayWeDie

“No hobbies. I don’t want someone who wants me to entertain them. I want someone who has their own life and their own friends and doesn’t feel abandoned if I want to spend time on my own or go out with my own friends.” — JaguarData

“Jealousy. I can’t stand the constant need to check phones, ask what you’re doing or who you’re talking to. It’s amazing how common it is, too.” — Melmokz

“Not having an open mind when it comes to not-so-crucial things, like art, food, etc. I don’t ask anyone to like what I like – just have an open mind instead of dissing it outright. Life is too short to be bitchy.” — Happy-Grapefruit2464

“Constantly complaining about anything and everything. There has to be something you enjoy. That or never taking responsibility for your own faults and always having to blame someone or something else.” — TheVillageFool12

“Thinking they own a certain look or idea. I dated this girl who thought everyone was copying her and it drove me up a wall. Stuff like, ‘I just think it’s funny how everyone started wearing nike right after I bought these shoes.’ No amount of explanation could change her mind on this” — TyroneBlic

“Playing on phone while having an in-person conversation. Drives me up the goddamn wall. I’m fine with checking/responding to the occasional text, but being entirely buried in your phone for long periods of time is infuriating. Like, hey, we can just hang out less if I’m taking away from your quality Facebook time. I don’t need to be sitting here twiddling my thumbs, when I could just be at home twiddling my thumbs on my couch.” — alchemist5

“For me, more like one-word response or showing no interest in the conversation. I can carry so much, but can’t engage if she doesn’t put some effort.” — Business-Cut5342

“Inability to be accountable or apologize. Being rude to service industry folks. No self awareness. Generally being a spoiled or narcissistic person.” — TrXtr

“Women who are dismissive towards others they see as inferior for any reason (age, dress, class, mental capacity, job, etc). That type of behavior is revolting.” — toasterstrewdal

“Flirting with other people when we are exclusive.” — NatGasKing